That's awesome about being kinky enough to be willing to tape yourselves (trust me, it doesn't always work like you think it will), but I think the best thing you can do is try not to look at it so much as being other people, but just as a demonstration of some of the things you can do with him. Just use it to get ideas, find out what part really turned him on, get into his thoughts and show your interest that way. Ignore the parts that offend you, or if you can't, bring up those parts with him and tell him a little bit about how it makes you feel. Maybe there's a certain aspect of the type of porn he watches which doesn't make you feel very good. Even better, show you're willing to be a little flexible by going to an adult video store together, rent a DVD you'll both like, then go from there. If nothing else, if you grin and bear it for him, maybe ask him if he'll do something that really turns you on for you.
Get over it
He's not looking so much at her, but rather at the couples display of passion - he's NOT watching it to imagine himself with her - this is a voyeur thing - and it can be hot especially if your having sex play with your partner while it plays in the background.
Well I just can't I tried that and it just upsets me, plus he wasn't even watching it! And it was just pissing me off having it on. Maybe if the women weren't so unrealistic and plastic, and airbrushed. He says it's ok and he'll never watch them if that's what I want. My question is is it always more attractive to guys when a girl likes watching it too?
More often then not - but hey, some girls out there refuse to perform or receive oral sex - one thing like this isn't going to black list you from becoming a man's ultimate physical desire - part of that is loving you for who you are
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Your feelings are so typical with women, it is no surprise at all. Watching porn is ok as long as he remembers you first and foremost. If he prefers to watch porn instead of having sex with you, then there is a problem. But avoid jealousy with porn. I watch porn but only for a short time because I get angry that someone else is having sex with those lovely women and I'm not in on it!
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It works different than you think, and it is a good way to look for new things to try or to spice up your sex life. its great that you are willing to tape yourself but he might want to mix it up and look for new things to try.
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