Is giving a blow job a bad thing?

[taytay07]

like doing to that one person only

[bannaboat101]

hey when it came time for me to finally get settled in on the action that I had always heard about I was nervous and really kinda just blah feeling but it was done with my fiance whom I really love and I learned that it is ok and soooo normal now I actually quiet enjoy it but only keeping it to him of course everything in life can be beautiful but its when it gets abused that it becomes shameful if you love the person you are doing it with and it is special then feel no shame and enjoy it but don't do it as a fashion trend or a popularity contest for male attention its something to be kept between two people in your bedrooms and your special doings so if all is well there but close friends are telling you its bad and terrible just blow it off they must not know how special it can be so follow your heart and do what it right don't let anyone tell you diffrent from that to thine own self be true good luck

[Anonymous]

If you are doing it for some random person or because you think it makes you look hot, it's a bad thing. If you are doing it for someone you care about, it's perfectly fine. I don't know why anyone would look down on it. This is just another way of bringing pleasure to someone. They should be willing to return the favor though. Also, it's not anyone else's business whether or not you do this. If you are worried about someone looking down on you, just keep it to yourself.

[candygurl]

I don't think it's a bad thing at all, I think its the sexiest thing because you get to really know what he's like down there and he gets so turned on it turns me on too. Its my favorite thing t do.

[regular-guy]

It really depends upon the relationship. If you are just dating then yes. If you are not even in a relationship, then even worse. If you are married then you and your spouse are more than welcome to explore that road. Chastity or being chaste includes more than just no vaginal intercourse outside of marriage.

[RoccoNacho]

Not if you love the guy and trust him,but you call the shots so make him eat carpet,that way if he turns out be just useing you at least you got something out of it.

[farmhand99]

giving a blow job is not a bad thing as long as you both want to have that action and both enjoy it its ok

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[Jay7755]

its realy not trust me, a lot of other girls do it, it doesn't make you looked down upon

[cjthabeast]

giving a bj is a great thing. .

[ramma5]

No way!

It's a great thing-Especially if you're not ready for sex.

[maraalove]

I agree 2 xper7. If he likes it and u 2 go ahaed

[Land46]

Definitely not a bad thing!

[dominick92]

Blowjobs are amazing! I see blowjobs as a sign that a girl is a giving person, just as a guy who goes down on a girl is. Personally I won't date a girl if she doesn't give blowjobs at least some of the time

[Anonymous]

I see it as a bad thing.

[smith2267]

And how is your dating life...?

[katiegal]

Smith... she has her own opinion,she answered the question,there is no point to ask her about her dating life.

[smith2267]

Just wanted to make a point...I don't think girls who won't give head get too many bf's.

[regular-guy]

Since people celebrate the diversity of permissiveness, why not allow the diversity to dissent or disagree? For what it is worth, none of my girlfriends, or any of the girls I knew well did it or thought that it was okay outside of a marriage context. Many of these girls got lots of dates from lots of guys.

[Opinion Owner]

I don't really find it fun to give or receive oral sex (call me crazy, it's just the idea of a guy putting his penis in my mouth, ehh not for me). And I also think that she is entitled to her own opinion. So smith2267 I'm kinda confused with your comment. I don't give head and I get plenty of boyfriends. No disrespect, I just want you to explain.

[Opinion Owner]

* oops, by the way I meant to say, that I am entitled to my own opinion.