Is giving a blow job a big deal?

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Is giving a blow job a big deal?Is swallowing a big deal?

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Is it a big deal for YOU to receive oral?

Sex is about giving and receiving pleasure, and BOTH of those activities should be enjoyable, because you should WANT to please the partner who pleases you. Yes, that means you'll have to try new things, and it might take some practice before you are fully comfortable with it and able to really enjoy it, but that will happen if you let it.

A lot of it is about ATTITUDE. If your attitude is "I dread how *I* feel", you'll be bad at it and it won't be enjoyable for either of you. If your attitude is "I am so excited about how good I can make HIM feel", then you'll do better, it will start to get easier and more fun for you, and he'll certainly enjoy it much more.

A lot of this has to do with your connection with the guy in the first place. If you're having sex with guys you don't really care about, then it might be hard for you to enjoy certain things. It's very different if you have real feelings and have trust with the guy.

Bvroon · Accepted Answer

It can be nice, but for me not a must. I think many guys like them because its a safe alternative to sex and protection isn't as necessary, so for many guys it's a big deal. Swallowing again, can be nice, but for me, I often worry that I might not taste good, so I can understand if you wouldn't want to. To that end I quite enjoy helping my wife orally and like being able to give her pleasure that way, which is a big deal to me.

Anjaa · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy. Does he like receiving oral sex? Would swallowing his come make him feel good? For some guys it is apparently very important and they wouldn't continue a relationship with a woman  refusing to do it but there are also men who aren't much into it and for them it wouldn't matter much at all.

Assassin · Answer

I don;t really demand blow job from my woman, I don't know her mouth on my dk and back in my mouth, hmm not my thing.

JackDRipper · Answer

It's nice but I wouldn't want her to do anything she is uncomfortable with.

Cantremember · Answer

Its a Big Deal getting one but a big deal not getting one, if that's what you are asking.

jedisatan · Answer

It's a big deal when it comes to taking steps into the sexual part of a relationship. Just jumping into bed before doing anything else, in my opinion, is stupid and typically puts pressure on the relationship afterward. Swallowing, not so much. The only reason I would think that a guy would make a big deal out of it would be if it turned him on or whatever

taster · Answer

Both of these are a big deal to a lot of guys...but I don't give a rip about either of them and there are quite a few of us that feel that way...probably in the minority tho...(:

G_GTom · Answer

It's a big deal in the sense that's is part of a good sexual relationship.  Put another way, I wouldn't date a women long term who wasn't into it.

dudeman · Answer

I think it is, I couldn't seriously be witj a women whosr sucked and swalloed other men, I got to kiss that mouth, that mouth is going to kiss my children