Is a guy able to cuddle with a girl all night without sex?

I went out with a guy I've been talking to for 5 months (this wasn't our first time going out). He took me to a movie, tried to get dinner but everything was closed, and then we went back to his place to watch another movie. He cuddled with me on his couch the whole movie and we made out-he clearly wanted to go further but I stopped him every time so he would know I wasn't going to give in. It ended up being really late, so he told me I could stay the night and nothing would happen he just didn't want me to drive home that late. So I stayed, he let me borrow his shorts and we went to bed. Of course throughout the night and in the morning (especially) he made out with me and kept trying to go further but whenever I stopped him he seemed fine with it. However, he cuddled with me all night. He never turned over or moved to the other side. All night he put his arms around me and held my hand, played with my hair or rubbed my stomach. He also whispered in my ear that he liked me a lot (I was half asleep), called me baby a few times and every single time he would adjust his arms, he would kiss my back and shoulder and neck then go back to sleep. He even called in work sick in the morning and was going to go later so he stayed in bed with me, then I left for work and he texted me everyday after that. He told me before he likes me, a few times, and we've made out before and I went to the movies with him a few other times within the past 5 months as well as to a club. However, it's been 5 months and he says he really likes me but we don't see each other that much and he hasn't asked me out that much. Was he only cuddling with me all night to get some? Can a guy cuddle without sex or does he only cuddle to get sex?
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  • Awe! Lucky bum, I wish a guy would cuddle me like that all night! Not turning away, arm around me holding my hand, rubbing my tummy, kissing my back and neck. From my experience not many men are THAT affectionate/cuddly/lovey, your really lucky! So you know he's an affectionate guy, but your question is if he's comitted or just wants sex? It's only natural if a guy likes you he's going to want sex because it makes him feel closer to you. If I were you, I'd talk to him about it, its the only way you'll truly know if he wants a relationship or not. Do remember your boundaries though and stick to them, or guys can looses respect. If you don't want to go further unless your in a relationship, I encourage you to stick to that. Hope all goes well!

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, a guy can do that. Doesn't mean he doesn't want it. He'll probably have to have some private time to get off after though.

  • It's *possible*, but I reckon most guys would want the sex.

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  • The guy has been waiting for 5 months?!?!

    • Haha yeah well we've only seen each other about 5 or 6 times because from January until May I was at school a few hours away. But he still doesn't seem to have time to see me so of course, I don't want to unless I'm actually in a relationship and can fully trust him-I'm not a very open person.

    • you want a relationship yet you already slept in his bed with him? women nowadays are so confused. I would have told his ass to drive me home. I didn't even do that until he started calling me his girlfriend and introduced me to his family as his g.f. at thanksgiving

  • yea I did it few times and the whole night I had a hard on and tears in my eyes

    • Why tears?

    • lol just kidding