Is it hard to squirt or for guys

to make a girl squirt? im fascinated by squirting I'm a virgin planning on doing oral with my boyfriend soon. I want him to try to make me squirt (yes I know not all girls can squirt) guys how do you do it and is it hard? girls does it take long, and do you push to squirt or does it just come out tell me everything you can
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  • Sweetie, ALL girls can, just not all do. It takes practice and knowledge but it is possible.
    You can try it yourself first if you want.

    The way that I first learned and what I have told my girl friends to try that always seems to work is to go pee first! Major important, because it helps you understand that your bladder is EMPTY and you are not going to PEE.
    Then sit on your heels, with your knees apart. Put two fingers up inside and curl them towards the front wall towards your pelvic bone. You will feel a spongy ribbed area, this is the G-Spot.
    Stroke the g-spot with a rocking motion, you will feel the build up of fluid in the skene's gland which is behind the g-spot. This is when we feel like we have to pee but it is this gland swelling with fluid.
    As you get closer to orgasm, use your other palm to press in on your pelvic bone as if you were trying to put your fingers (on the inside) against the palm (on the outside.)
    As you begin to orgasm, push down like you were forcing something our of your vagina, and pull your fingers out, I usually suggest pulling up on your clitoris as you push down, You will feel that your internal walls push up against the opening of the vagina and you should be squirting. It may spray out, or dribble out, and it will make a wet mess, but it feels amazing and afterward your vagina will be swollen and super sensitive.
    This will make intercourse immediately afterward hyper arousing for you and will feel awesome for your partner as well.

  • I'm a squirter, unfortunately I hate it, its gross, and makes sex weird... My fiancé loves it. I don't know why.. Anyways during sex it just happens, sometimes when I give head, and sometimes when I sneeze, its weird I know.. But listen if you can't you cant, but if you can its not always so fabulous. It'll save you from washing your sheets every single time afterward. But all my exes never had an issue with it, just I feel very uncomfortable about it. So if you can awesome if you can't even better! :P

    • I can make you squirt!! I love making a girl squirt such a turn on

    • @kabar35 Correction. You can irritate my urethra and encourage me to push past the normal mechanism that keeps women from peeing during sex, and then I can pee on you. If YOU love that, then great. I personally find it messy and doesn't do a thing for improving the sex, and its much more likely to get in the way of having an orgasm than improving it for me. If a woman has a functional Skene's gland and can ejaculate that way, it will happen naturally, and requires no special stimulation. But functional Skene's glands are rare in women. Read myTake on it. You'll learn a lot.

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  • NO all women can squirt if done right. For the first time try to do it alone put some blankets over your bed drink a lot of water 1 hour before, after stay in the bed and relax. When you are read put a high pillow under your waist and start masturbating like normal, when you see you are wet enough insert your middle finger or two and massage the upper inside part the g spot is about 1-1.5 inch iside the vagina. It's a spongy tissue rub it good , do circular movements, do the come hitcher sign, when it's aroused it should start feeling like a walnut, if it does continue you are good. Through all the process don't stop because you will have to start from the begining if you do. Hope it helps.

  • It depends. The last girl I had was a real squirter and would gush like crazy. I would just do it by having normal sex. And one time she was so turned on she gushed while she was giving me head out in the forest. It wasn't too hard for me, I just had to set the mood right and prepare with lots of foreplay. Then again I think I was just lucky.

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  • The first time every time you have sex it a while to squirt but after that its easy... and it will take more than just clit stimulation he will probably have to finger you .. tell him to use his two middle fingers about an inch in...

    • Hell yeah... I'm going to make you squirt tonight.

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  • Honestly, I don't believe in squirting. I've never had a girl "squirt". I think it's pee that comes out. I've talked to a lot of people about this and not one can come up with an explanation about this.

    • From Wikipedia: Female ejaculation (also known as gushing or squirting[1]) refers to the expulsion of noticeable amounts of clear fluid by human females from the paraurethral ducts through and around the urethra during or before an orgasm. The exact source and nature of the fluid continues to be a topic of debate among medical professionals and is related to doubts over the existence of the G-Spot.

    • Apparently you just haven't been with a girl that really can... its not pee or it would smell like pee

  • I've heard you have to rub her g-spot

    I'm sure you can find articles online

    (I'm still a virgin so I've never tried it)

  • Girls can squirt. I have seen it...my fiance (arbaby) can do it.. a lot of girls are just nervous to...just have reassure them

  • squirting is so HOT. the first girl I was with couldn't do it or I sucked too bad to get her there Lol. she never could from masturbating either so I dunno. but the 2nd girl was able to when she was really turned on and wanting sex. I couldn't get her there from oral alone but deep fingering with a couple fingers hooked in for a while would finally get it. she only did it like twice from sex though and she had to be rubbing her clit the whole time with penetration while she was on the bottom

    • Not every girl can...