Is having oral sex something that's too early to do?

I've recently started dating this guy for about two months now and we've been intimate about 5 or 6 times. He and I joke about oral sex but I feel its too early since were not official. When is the right time?
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Yes we have been having sex without doing oral sex first but its no big deal to me I actually enjoy it.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It´s just a matter of how you conceive sex. To me sex INVOLVES oral sex, they don´t belong to different realms or depend on what type of relationship you're carrying. I understand there might be different takes on this, but if you think again, wouldn't you prefer any experience, whatever its reasons or circumstances, to unfold at its fullest?

  • Whenever you both feel comfortable with it. I don't think there's any set timeframe. Some people consider oral sex to be more intimate and others consider having sex more intimate, There's no real right or wrong answer on that. If you feel it's too early, then I'd suggest waiting until you're ready.

Most Helpful Girls

  • There is no "right time" when you have to do it. Just do it whenever you and your partner are ready. Oral sex, I don't think, is as intimate as actual sex though. I usually have oral sex before real sex in my relationships. But if you arn't ready for it then don't let him pressure you into it.

  • Guess it all depends on what trips your trigger! Generally I will give a guy oral before f**king him.

  • There is no one right tme. It's whenever you and your partner feel ready.

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  • Hey, I always tho that oral sex was given before intercourse. HUh! Meaning that you are willing to provide your mouth without having to get naked and show your full body just yet.

    Sorry, if I did not answer your question accordingly but I am confused.

  • Get down to business then!

  • Whenever really I would say, if your ok having sex, oral sex shouldn't be much of a big deal, get some 69 going :D