Is he asexual or shy?

been dating this guy for 6 weeks and all we have done is hold hands and cuddle. He has given me a peck on the cheek but has not even tried to kiss my lips, hasn't tried to make out or do anything sexual, hasn't talked about it or anything. Most guys try to get physical ASAP at least by kissing. I don't mind that he's slow, he's very sweet. It's just so different I'm wondering if he even likes me like that? He hasn't asked to be boyfriend and girlfriend either.
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and what do I class him as? A friend or boyfriend? Do guys usually ask to be boyfriend and girlfriend or just assume it if we hang out all the time and do some couply things
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Some guys know that most guys are quick to go for those things, so he may be trying to impress you in a way that shows he's not like most guys.

    He's interested for sure though, he wouldn't be holding hands, cuddling, still dating you if he weren't.

  • hes shy and doesn't know what you want ...you should learn to initiate more and you make the moves

Most Helpful Girls

  • Is he a shy person in general? Is he also inexperienced? I'd probably guess he either doesn't want to go too fast for you OR he can't get up the guts to initiate it (which is understandable). Ever thought about starting the kiss yourself? :)

  • Guys that do this is either wanting to know you better before taking things to another level , Or they could be dating other women and just want you as a friend .

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  • He's shy, and perhaps slightly fearful.

  • He's just a friend

  • He is either respecting you and taking his time because he has deep feelings for you or he is gay

    • why would a gay guy ask me out? he asked me out while I was at work

    • Gay guys adore the company of a girl but it is more likely that he is into you, also do not worry about classifying what you two are. Let it happen