Is he using me for phone sex?

Ok if a guy starts off by saying what are you wearing and then he tells you what he would do with or to you if he were there and asks you what you would do to him and what you want him to do to you! Does this mean he likes you or is he just horny and using you?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • yeah he's probably just horny. There may be underlying feelings there but I wouldn't bank too much on that because there's not enough info and he would probably tell you if there were (before the "phone sex" hopefully). I personally am a rather shy guy and wouldn't think of doing that even with my girlfriend, but I know guys that would think it's kinda hot and do it with all their female contacts every time they had an itch in their gonads.

    • Ok well he has already said that he likes me but that its not a good time for him to be in a relationship right now because he is about to graduate as am I and he works 3 jobs so he doesn't have a lot of free time.

    • I'd still be careful here. Simply put, many guys are programmed to seek sex first and then a relationship. I'd say wait a bit and test out the waters first before you make any real step toward commitment.

    • Ok thank you so much!

  • He probably wants to test you on the phone for now, and then he might eventually try to get you in bed.

    If he wants to know you as a person, he'll ask about things that aren't related to sex.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Definitely just horny and wants to be able to put a real person in his images, because more than likely he's probably getting off to what your telling him. Also like someone else said, he might also be testing you to see if you'll want to do stuff in person

    • We have had phone sex then we met for the first time had sex. After that we've been sexting, having phone sex, virtual sex, but he's putting a lot of excuses about work and that he wants to be alone... even when i told him that i would like to see him again. I left him on read for a week because o felt the lack of interest... and 2 days ago he came back (we used to talk everyday) Can someone explain this? Even if its silly, i would like to read your comments.

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  • Sounds to me like he's testing the waters to see if you will come across in person. He's just horny.