Is it embarrassing to be a virgin at the age of 20?

[Anonymous]

Im a virgin and 20! Always thought about just doing it coz i heard its amazing. Should i do it or keep my virginity?

[sovetskii13]

Oh relax girl. There is no specific age by which you are expected or supposed to lose your virginity. You do it whenever you find the right person and feel ready. And that can be at any age. Everyone is different. You wanna know something I'm not afraid of sharing? I'm 24 and I never been on a date or kissed a girl. So what? If I ever find the right girl and fall in love, wala! If not, fine with me. Nothing to feel bad or embarrassed about. No one is expecting you to have lost your virginity already. You will do it when you find the right guy and feel ready. That's it.

[vekin]

come on you ae 20 and not 80!!!

[Asker]

Lol dw im staying a virgin

[vekin]

good luck with that ;-)

[vekin]

Thnx for mho!!

[justbanANNAz]

i will never understand why virginity is so inextricably linked to shame in this messed up society. being a virgin is something to be proud of my dear. embrace it while u have it.

[Asker]

Thats what it is. I even get friends of mines just telling me to 'do it'. But i know i wanna stay a virgin now

[BuchitaBuchys]

I didn't have my first kiss or first boyfriend until 19. I didn't have sex until 20. I don't think it's embarrassing at all. Have sex when you're ready :)

[Anonymous]

Nope, nothing wrong with that. It's embarrassing to be one at my age though. I don't like to admit it to people

[Junlian]

Dont do it. Keep it. I tell why though.

[bdeakol]

Do it, because you should always follow what society tells you. DUH!

[ek1998]

Don't worry about it! The hype about virginity is huge these days, but it shouldn't be. Don't sweat it, it's not big deal.

[SearchingYou]

I am 28 virgin so relax

[poisonkizz]

Please, it's not embarrassing. Don't listen to the society, just follow your heart ;)

[iste_kuzukuzugeldim]

That's your decision, nobody can say "do or not do" .
If you ask my opinion, the best one is to become experienced witha man who we loved.

[Klaatu51]

of course it is. do it NOW don't keep this stupid thing called virginity because you're brainwashed by religion

[Tokana]

I was a virgin up until the age of 22. Nothing to be ashamed of.

[Rissie82391]

Save it...

[DanyPiano]

No, not really. It's society that makes you feel this way. Don't worry about it.

[Asker]

Yeah thats it. won't have sex till im with somebody and it feels right.

[Downanddepressed]

I am also 20 years old and a virgin. The girl I am seeing right now is 18 (turning 19 in February) and still a virgin.
We are not bad looking people either. I am athletic and have a decent muscular build and she is petite with crystal blue eyes. Both of us are just introverted and shy.

She is the best girl I have dated so far. She is beautiful and I hope everything works out and we share our first times with each other.

But it took a good effort to find her. Yes, I have came across many virgin girls. But she was the one I clicked with the best.

To summarize what I am trying to say is that being a virgin is probably one of the most desirable qualities of a woman (or man). It means she has never been touched, never has recollection or memories of that first guy, no baggage to bring into a new relationship, and no attachment to someone else. I desire a woman like that. In fact, it is a deal breaker for me. You will be that diamond in the rough for that special guy one day.

[Asker]

Aww thats adorable. Hope you two last. :') i hope so

[Downanddepressed]

Thank you, I hope so too :)

[tman34]

I'm 22 and still a virgin

[kellytheman]

No. I am a virgin at 26 only have sex when u have someone u really love so when u do have sex it will be special and never get pushed or rushed in. having sex only u know when u r ready to lose ur virginity.

[LotusKappa]

No baby, save it for the one you in love. I'm 20 virgin too, nothing wrong with that.

[chocolateismylover]

Nah, It ain't embarassing.

[AlwaysBelieving]

It's fine. Ask in about 15 years. LOL

[tOi_sOldier]

yest very embarrassing let us both lose our virginity with each other

[Asker]

No thanks

[tOi_sOldier]

i was just trying to be helpful lol

[jmmmfi]

I was till 23 it is what it is. And from what I've heard for a girl your first time won't be amazing.

[Draytheblackid]

No its not it actually shows patience.

[Asker]

Aw ok so its best staying a virgin

[Pattrick143]

its up to u... neways the term and hype around "VIRGINITY" is all man made... dnt bother urself much.. just do what u feel is ryt 4 u

[Anonymous]

for girls no, for guys yes unfortuneately

[Anonymous]

If you're a guy, it can be.
If you're a girl, don't worry about it.

[Anonymous]

i was virgin until 27 years and never felt embarrassed before that

[Anonymous]

No, don't be ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

I'm tired of seeing this question
I guess the gag search feature must be broken or something

[Asker]

Well dont read it then.

[Opinion Owner]

Use the gag search feature

[Opinion Owner]

Someone up voted me so they obviously agree

[Anonymous]

No, I'm a virgin at 29

[Asker]

Really? Can i ask you why?

[poisonkizz]

no, she was joking. she's not 29, her age is around 18 to 24.

[Opinion Owner]

@poisonkizz & @asker - I'm not joking (my age on here is incorrect). The reason I am a virgin is because when I was in my younger 20's, I decided to be celibate (never get married, have sex, etc.). As I got older, I realized I really did want to get married, have sex, etc., so I've decided to stop being celibate & find a husband.