Is it weird that he stayed hard after he came?

I hooked up with a guy last night and he came three times before he became soft. I don't know if that weird but I mean it's definitely not a bad thing. Also I didn't realize that he was cumming that much, I just thought he lasted long until we did it the second time. So the first time he didn't change the condom in between so is that bad?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope, there's nothing bad/weird about him not having gone soft right after cumming. I mean, each guy will differ with how long their refractory period will last. Which is also something that changes according to age/lifestyle/overall health, etc..

    My boyfriend will usually stay hard for 10+ minutes after cumming. Sometimes managing to cum again without having gone soft in between. 👌

  • Some men are just lucky that way. You should change the condom, but as long as nothing leaked out, you're probably fine. Tell him that he needs to change the condom if he ejaculates but wants to keep going from now on.

  • Each guy is different. My boyfriend stays hard for a while after he gets off—especially if I keep playing with him.

  • i know many guys that stay hard for a long time after ejactulating

Most Helpful Guys

  • i dont kno the science behind it but its good to kno im not the only guy who can still have it up after the cumming. i dont blame women for thinking its weird if our penis is still going. lol still weird me y our penises is not dropping right after like our ballz

  • Goddamn! You must've had that guy REALLY turned on! lol! I don't think I've ever managed 3 shots before going soft! How long did it take? And did you get off too?

    • 15-20 minutes and yes

    • Good lord! Three shots in under 20 minutes? Were they all from sex or did you blow him too? Good to hear you got off. Sex or oral or both?

    • He got off mostly from sex, I gave him a quick suck just to get things started. And I came from the sex but he also went down on me it was just super quick

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  • Not weird at all, and not too uncommon either. Heh..

  • It's quite possible. :-)

  • You loved it didn't you... Bet you can't take your mind off it

    • I did like it ;)

  • Yes some of guys can stay hard after we cum but it's not weird at all.

  • I don't think it's weird but never had a guy that was hard more than a few seconds after cumming.

  • Omg wow I don't know how

  • Dont you love that man, i often remain erect after cum.