Is large labia a turn off for men? - Particularly when it comes to giving oral sex?

Hi, I have large labia and I feel uncomfortable when my boyfriend gives me oral sex as I feel my large labia will be a turn off for him. He seems to like my larger labia but I can't help but think he is just being kind. Guys have ever been with girls with large labia, and what did you make think of it? Girls, if you have large labia what type of responses have you had from guys?
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  • Most likely I'd be more turned on. I think labias are sexy and when a penis head rubs against them the pleasure is intense.

    As far as giving oral sex, as long as you do your best to keep everything clean and neat down there, I don't see any issue. In the end, I as a man care more how it feels once the penis is inside you.

  • My lover is a naturally bald tight innie and yet I like long petals. They look hot and sexual and you can lay them flat and pull open the Vag for better "access". Like most guys, I like visual stimuli. A past lover's lips would part and drip when she was aroused, which was particularly hot to see when she walked around.

    • is your lover a child? lol how can she be "naturally bald"...

    • Southeast asian. She may have 20 hairs.

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  • Labia size is one of those things that girls freak out over but guys ignore. Unless you can tie them in a knot, your man probably doesn't notice, and certainly doesn't care.

    If you can tie them in a knot, please send pictures.

  • mmmmmmm ;)

  • That's something you should discuss beforehand to make sure he knows that here are different vaginas out there.

    Personally i enjoy long labia

  • I find it a turn on

  • When you say "large" I am not sure if you mean fat or long.probably doesn't matter...but why won't you believe your boyfriend? What has he to gain by lying to u? If he is happy...then enjoy yourself...

  • Women with long labia are a gift to mankind! Problem is, about 50% of them dont even realize it because they spend too much time watching porn where EVERYONE is perfect and ALL men have 14" penises. Love those lips because theyre amazing and i guarantee that one day you'll find a man who drools at the thought of getting them in his greedy mouth lol!!

    • Exactly, I know because I am one of those men

  • Not for me I’m there makes me horny and they feel great love to see them lips grip my cock and my how they make me cum so hard

  • Absolutely not, a matter of fact, for me it is just the opposite, large labia is by far my biggest turn on.

  • The most of the men do love inner labia being larger.
    A woman having inner labias hanging outside outer labias is very good looking woman. Is more sexy, more feminin and is a torn on.
    A woman with small inner labias are looking like a girl, immature.
    But what is really counting is the woman herself. The hanging labias are just a plus like a big breast.
    Think about that, big inner labias are like big breast.

  • I love large labia. more to put in my mouth and just feels better penetrating! my girlfriend is the same…total turn-on!

  • NOPE Love them more when I am sucking on them

  • Giving oral to a "well built" lady is a DEFINATE turn on !

  • Turnoff.

  • If it is clean it is all good.

  • My wife has large labia, and she was also concerned about it. In my opinion, I think she looks amazing, and I never gave it a thought until she brought it to my attention years after we were married. I believe it is all in your head, and I would recommend you don't give it 2nd thought.

  • The longer the better in my opinion
    Absolutely no need to feel insecure about them :)

  • Couldn't care less. I don't think any guy would care.

    But girls who hate their own bodies are a turn off.

  • I don't think guys really care to be honest...dont worry about it. It's VERY common for a woman to have large labia minoras.

    • you got that right :D

    • We all have preferences, there just never the same or not as important. Large labia happens to be a huge turn on for me, probably my number one physical trait, definitely more so than boobs, ass, or body type.