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Is licking the anus very rare?
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Yesterday before we had sex, my boyfriend was licking my anus/as#@ and putting his finger in it a few times. I have not had a guy do this to me before. Is this really rare/uncommon?
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We were having sex today and it was the full gamut. From 69 position, to him going down on me for a long time to intercourse. He was in missionary position and I was trying to figure out the sensation till I realized his finger was in my butt. whoa!
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 20Yuck! What some guys won't do instead of just getting really good at doing other more conventional sexual things with their girls. I don't think it's rare. Of course it's uncommon and it's dirty and he must have some kind of fetish with licking a girl's butt. Some guys like to be submissive to girls that way even if the girls don't really understand why they do it. If he's licking yours I doubt if yours is the only one he's licked. So think of this when you're kissing.
For better or worse, it's yet another sexual act which has been made more popular by porn, like facials and shaved women.
The real important question is did you like it? If you felt it was weird or uncomfortable, then ask him to not do it.
I think I'm ok with him doing that - but not much more. . .I was surprised he would want to do that but if he does it again, I will mention it then or right after. We have been pretty traditional so far - some different positions but often missionary. Besides my as#@ he seems obsessed with my breasts as well - more than any guy I've ever dated. Well overall, I guess he loves my body. .. .more than any other guy I've dated. I just have that issue knowing about the as#@ and what it is used for. .
Worth pointing out if you're not okay with him doing more that analingus and fingering are useful for loosening up an anal virgin in preparation for non-painful anal sex. He may be trying to get you ready physically and in the, "I've done somethin' for you, now I want you to do somethin' for me" way. (I wouldn't assume he's doing it for an ulterior motive, and even if he is, it might be to make the experience as pleasant for you as possible, but I just have to put that out there.)
Yes I think you are right. .. thankfully he also likes to give the more usual oral sex. He seems to be up for it all. . .
Sounds like he is just hot for you. if you like what he is doing then just go with it. I think you may find he wants anal sex. this is not such a bad thing if he is gentle and loves you and will take it slow etc. you 2 just need to talk about it.