Is my hymen broken if I finger myself?

I masturbate often and I can fit 2 fingers in my vagina easily. Is my hymen broken then? Will it hurt in my first time if it doesn't hurt now?
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  • First of all, virginity is not defined by the hymen. Some people worry about that. Don't. In fact, virginity as a concept is stupid. Anyways, hymens often stretch, tear, and even replace themselves. Sexually active women can even have them intact. Your first time doesn't have to hurt at all, and it shouldn't if you go slow, careful, and you remain calm (so not scared that it will hurt, sex is 90% mental and relaxing). But two fingers is generally as big as a penis (but two fingers all the way around, horizontally and vertically). If two fingers don't hurt, a penis won't as long as you relax.

  • This doesn't mean your hymen is broken at all. It does mean that sex will most likely not hurt or only slightly hurt when you try. Just make sure your man takes his time for your first time. Fingering you, eating you out, and other types of foreplay will help loosen your vagina and make sex easier and better for you

Most Helpful Girls

  • If he is 2 finger sized and you have both made sure that you are nice and aroused then no, it should not hurt at all. I think you are going to have a lovely first time. Enjoy!

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  • It doesn't hurt to everyone on the first time. When guy becomes so aggressive about his own satisfaction and have less knowledge that how to penetrate then only it hurts.

    Hymen can break due to fingering but when you become so horny and do it with more pressure to satisfy your need.

    It hurts little bit when hymen is broken.
    No need to worry too much dear.

    All the best for first time with whomever you lose your V card.

  • Whether or not your hymen is ruptured, a penis will be bigger than two fingers. As to whether it will hurt or not, that depends. It doesn't hurt for every girl.

  • It doesn't break, but it does tear. Two fingers suggests not much is left. Experiment. Insert them to the first knuckles and spread them wide as your V will permit. Painful?

  • Probably, why not try w ur boyfriend

  • yes it is likely broken and sex won;t hurt.