Is my penis too big?

I was having sex with my new girl friend for the first time ( we are both 20) and about 20 seconds into it she tells me to stop. I asked why and she said that my penis is to big for her. I knew I had a big penis ( 8.5 inches:) ) from my last girl friend but she was fine with it. So girls 3 questions. 1 what would you say a big penis is. 2 what is the biggest you have ever had. 3 what would be the biggest you think you can handle
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  • 1. Anything 7" or over is big.

    2. A couple guys I dated were around 9"

    3. Up to 9" or even a little bigger looks really sexy. Depending on what kind of sex you are having it can also feel really good. Big cocks are great for giving head because it looks so extreme and erotic. Big is handy for certain positions because what you don't see in porn movies is how hard it is to keep a penis inside with some angles unless it's a bit long. If you like anal like I do then a little big is pretty great for that if the guy knows how to do anal. For good old straight vaginal sex though, there IS such a thing as too long. Most of the nerve endings in the vagina are in the first 3 inches of it so unless a girl needs to get off on the psychological effects of "deep pounding" then shallow thrusting is actually much better and makes much bigger orgasms for her.

  • 1 Since the average is 5.5-6, I'd say every guy 6.5 or above is big and any guy 5 or below is small. That's purely statistically, not based on my preferences or feelings.

    2 Let's just say he was bigger than you :)

    3 I love a **** that's 9 long and 6 around. It fits me just perfectly. I can't fit anymore inside me but I can still enjoy someone larger since there are others things I can do with it besides put it inside me.

    For your gf, just don't penetrate her with your whole length. Find out what's comfortable for her and only go that deep. Keep the rest of your length outside her. It may take some practice because most men are used to not showing constraint but it will make her happier.

  • Honestly, a girl can handle any size penis has long as you do it the right way.

    1) Since she is really tight make sure you finger her before intercourse to loosen her up.

    2) Use some lubrication before entering.

    3) Make sure you go slow.

    You might not get all the way in there at first, but as you continue putting motion in the ocean you will eventually loosen her up enough to slip in.

    I suggest you start off easy at first to get her use to the feel of your penis.

    Also, A big penis to me 8 inches.

    The biggest I've ever had was a 9/10 inch.

    • I don't believe any girl who claims to have had a double digit d***. They exist, but are really, really f'in rare. you are either misjudging (it's been well established that girls don't have as good spatial abilities as guys), or you are just believing whatever your bf's tell you they are.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you have a length issue, try some different positions that give shallower penetration. Slamming her cervix probably isn't winning you any points. If it is a girth issue, lots of lube, go slow, and make sure she is really turned on and wet before you start.

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  • What a well made troll ... lol

  • every girl is different and getting use to size takes time.

    1. the average is 5-6 long and 5 around. one inch longer ain't going to make too much different so I will say anything over 7 long OR 6 around is considered big.

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    3. a vagina can get use to any penis width if done enough (and gently) - except for length. too much length will hurt.

    • How about 7 AND 6?

  • My vagina can hold any penis. Guys don't know but if it is not very firm, it is no good.

  • 8.5 is a nice size although I don't think it's to much. If maybe her past sex partners were smaller that would be a factor as to why she said yours was to big. The biggest I have ever had was a 9 inch it was pretty big. I don't think I could handle more than a 9 inch.

  • your penis is not THAT big...just so you know...you should probably remind yourself of that every once in awhile...

    • If he's telling the truth and measuring properly, yeah, it is. 8.5 is rarer than 1 in 100. Learn what you are talking about before making a fool of yourself. https://blakereviews.com/lengthnorm.jpg What is up with the evidently irresistable urge for girls to attack any guy with a question about penis size?

    • If there are 200 million people in the us and half are guys, that's 100 million dudes. 1 percent of of them have a really big penis, that's still 1 million of them. and they advertise. if you don't believe me then go to lpsg.org and craigslist

    • I know. I belong to LPSG.org

  • it's different for every girl. she's just... tight. it hurts... but sooner or later she's gonna have to deal with it. buy her some different size dildos or something to practice with.