Is my vagina loose if I can easily fit two fingers in?

I'm 19 and I have never had sex before. I have never used sex toys or anything else other than my fingers when masturbating. It used to hurt a little when masturbating with two fingers. Now, Putting one finger in doesn't give any effect anymore. And I need at least two fingers in to feel pleasured (though I can easily fit both fingers side by side with little or no discomfort at all). I've never tried using more than 2 fingers, using 3 fingers will probably still feel a bit painful, but I don't want to stretch my vagina even more because I think I'm already loose. Recently, I was fingered for the first time by my boyfriend. He put two fingers in and although it felt good, it wasn't 'tight'. My question is, is my vagina average normal or loose, and are there any tips for making it 'tighter'?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You're vagina won't be loose just because you had three fingers in it. It will stretch out for a little while during your "session" then return to normal after that. I've had four fingers and the top of my thumb in my wife who sometimes can't take two fingers comfortably and the next time we had sex, a day or two later, she was as tight as ever.

    You should practice Kegals to tone the vaginal muscles. You want to squeeze the muscles like you are cutting off peeing mid-stream and hold it for a few seconds. Do this several times a day and hold for a 10-count and you'll notice that you can make your vagina feel tighter/stronger whenever you want to.

  • Normal. Don't stretch it with with three fingers or big toys, though.

    Two fingers go in easily once you are aroused in masturbation because you vagina expands. The good part is that it constricts when you reach orgasm and hugs fingers or penis tightly.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Its not loose at all your fingers aren't that big enough 2 make you loose ... theirs a cream you could put on but its bad for you just stop fingering yourself and it'll go back to the way it was

    • yeah I've read almost everywhere than two fingers won't make a girls vag loose, but idk, it just seems like my vag isn't as tight as it was. Any idea on how long it would take until it goes back to normal? :p

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  • I can fit four fingers in a smaller opening then my penis.

    My fingers. Which i would guess are bigger than yours.

    Relax.

  • considering babies come out from there you are fine, really two fingers isn't much

  • I heard kegals help?

    • Yeah me too, I do kegals, but I can't really tell if they're working or not. :p

    • If you want to feel the effect of a kegal, put your finger(s) in while you're doing them.

    • I have asked my lover to "Kegel" while I am inside her and she is considerably more snug.

  • That's completely normal.

  • All girls are different. I think 2 fingers is pretty average

  • Does fingering your self affect the kaw of God?

  • I think thats a normal size

  • Trust me, 2 female-sized fingers is nothing for a vagina. A normal penis is around twice that size in diameter and with the vagina being elastic, you have no worries.