Is it normal for my girlfriend to be afraid of cum?

recently I've been asking her to let me come in her mouth when she gives me bj she says no, so I asked her to eat some and she said fine she made me dip my finger in it and she rubbed her pinky on my finger that had come on it and put it in her mouth, is it normal for a girl to be afraid of cum? and I just really want to come on her on in her I have been cumming in a napkin or cup for 6 months now please help any advice would be appreciated. and please give me a way to maybe make her comfortable with it cause its hurting me a lot to have her hate part of me.
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  • Yes it's normal.

    Do you want to be covered in that gooey icky snot like glue?

    Do you want that gunk shot down your throat?

    She doesn't seem afraid she just doesn't want it sprayed on her or shot down her throat.

    please give me a way to maybe make her comfortable with it cause its hurting me a lot to have her hate part of me.

    ^ accept what she's comfortable with & stop trying to find a way for her to do something she dislikes just for your pleasure

    She doesn't hate it probably she just doesn't want it on her or to swallow it.

    It's okay to love someone without loving every part of them.

    Either accept her, force her to do what you want aka make her 'comfortable', or get a girl who wants what you want.

  • just talk to her about it and ask her why she feels that way comunication is the key to any good relationship, I was the same way for a while after I bacame sexually active then I eventually warmed up to it and don't care as much now. Its definitely the most pleasent thing in the world... here is an excperiment for you that gives the same sensation as a guy cumminng in your mouth.

    Lick salt off your hand then take a shot of Baileys and leave it in your mouth follow with a shot of lime juice swish it around in your mouth for 10n seconds so it mixes then swallow

    • I made my husband do that and now he has a greater apretation for when I let him finish in my mouth

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  • i don't think she's afraid, just rather not have you shoot in her mouth. We all have different experiences on this topic, I had a girl who likes to get shot in the mouth, others rather not. I know you probably want to spice it up but you can't force her on this. If eventually she changes her mind, then she changes her mind. Sorry bro, but you might just have to hang in there for her =/

    • she won't even touch my cum...

    • maybe she just is disgusted by it. Try going down on her and showing her that you can't lick up her own to show her its okay, but its up to you.

  • Some girls like it some don't, my current girlfriend swallows all the time she loves it, and wants it all the time. Our come is actually good for women, you want your girl to be healthy right, tell her it's good protein, it really is.

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  • Maybe come just isn't her thing. Word is, it isn't necessarily tasty.

    • no it can be quite salty actually but it also depends on the guys diet as well

    • Never tasted it, but the look and texture alone tells me it's not stuff I can just expect someone to consume. If she asks, fine, but I won't.

    • i eat almost a pound of pineapple a day

  • That's not normal at all...

    • it is if she is new to being sexually active

    • that's not scared then, that's just nervous/shy about it if anything. Even if she's new that's not normal. If women were normally afraid of come the human race wouldn't exist.

  • YES... That's normal!!!