Is it normal to get hard thinking about her?

sometimes I think about an old crush of mine, of whom I really really liked. and I won't even think about her sexually, just I'll think about her as a person, and I'll get hard! is this normal? how does this even happen? I'm sure it probably happens with every girl you like in your life, but its been years and I still get a chubby thinking about her lol
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  • It's kind of weird, to me, that you would become sexually aroused when you're not thinking about this girl in a sexual way. Did you ever get hard when thinking about other girls in a non-sexual way? Did you and this old crush ever get physical with each other? Also, how did she normally dress and how does this compare to other women you've met in your life?

    • not other girls in a non-sexual way. and no we didn't have anything physical. she was an old friend of mine that rejected me romantically. you know, the usual. she wasn't slutty or anything. I liked her style. I like most everything about her, really.

    • Maybe she's just more physically attractive than any of the girlfriends that you've had in the past?

    • she was never my girlfriend, but yes I found her to be the most physically attractive girl I've ever seen, or known, really. pretty wild.

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  • It's normal. Don't worry about it. It means there was something about her that really turned you on and you were intensely attracted to her. It's a good thing.

    • i guess its a good thing, it's not bad by any means, I'm sorta indifferent about it, but I just found it interesting. cool in a way. haha

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yup, you like her and the thought of her turns you on. Normal :)

  • Well, I'm are some people have that issue. But not many...

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  • yeah its totally normal. I get hard even looking at clothed photos of my crush, by the way she's a Christian so she dresses extremely modestly. I don't know what it is but I guess the hormones and testosterone levels. I even sometimes have the same problem when seeing her in person wearing something flirty , she never ceases to excite me. and she is filipino in case you wanted to know. I'm chinese. lol