Is it OK to come inside my girlfriend?

So my girlfriend and I are really serious and she is on birth control. We have been having sex for a while and for some reason, I have the craving to just come inside of her. Since she is on birth control, would it be safe to do so? Isn't that kind of what the pill is for? So, do you think it would be OK and safe to come inside my girlfriend? Also, girls if you are monogamous with your guy would you want your man to come inside of you? Would you like it?
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  • Assuming you are both STD free it is safe. Of course there is a chance bith control fails but it's the same with condoms. The pill one of the safest methods, link according to this only the shot is safer (if exclude permanent options)

    You just got to be really sure she takes it responsibly. If you are ask her if she wants to do it too, don't just do it

    I haven't had sex yet, but I don't think I would mind, it sounds hot to me, but as I said I don't really know. I would insist on him getting tested before we have sex though

  • i love it when my guy cums in me. I think it's nice of you to ask. it would show you respect her. you can use more than one form of birth control at a time to make it even less of a chance of her getting pregnant. you can buy these spermicide things at any pharmacy that she puts in her p**** before you guys have sex. they are tiny and egg shaped and release a spermicide gel. they are 96% effective. mix that with the pill and I don't see you two having babies any time soon.

  • Ok so technically yes, it is safe...but it's like 99% safe. So if you think that 99% is safe enough, then you should ask her to make sure she's fine with it. NOT a good idea to do it w/o asking her first!

    I do like it, esp in a monogamous relationship :o)

Most Helpful Guys

  • If she's been on the pill for over a month and she makes sure to take it at the same time every day, yes, it's safe.

  • Yes - and you should come inside her...it's much better.

    • Oh man, I want to! No mess and it seems like it would just be great!

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  • There is still a chance she can become pregnant. No birth control is safe.

  • The pill does not protect against STDs if that is a concern...

    • No, read my question! lol

    • No, actually read the question! lol

    • I read your question. I am just saying that if on the pill and concerned about STDs then maybe I would be nervous about it.

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  • The pill doesn't 100% protect against pregnancy. I knew a kid that was born because his parents thought that she wouldn't get pregnant because she was on the pill

  • Odds are she won't get pregnant...but how much do you really want to risk that you could fall into that 4% (if that's the right number) that do...

    I personally wouldn't be comfortable with it until we were trying to have kids.

  • ask her

  • You really should ask her. You don't want to do something that she's not comfortable with, and there's always a chance of her getting pregnant even though she's on the pill. And to answer your question, I wouldn't want him to unless I want to get pregnant. But that's just me, so ask your girl!

  • It should be perfectly safe to cum. inside her. Thing is you have to be prepared that if by some chance one of your little guys connects with an egg you and her are ready to begin a family.

  • Are you ready to become a father? The pill birth control is not always effective.

  • if it was me I would feel uncomfortable until he and me both are planning to have kids

    but the pill is not 100% secured

  • Cum inside her..but still a chance for pregnancy!

    Thats why they call sex practice making babies...but if you succeed you failed!

  • Has she specifically asked you not to?

  • If you two want to try it, then go for it. There's always a small chance of pregnancy though if you come inside her. But it's definitely hot. :)

  • dude. its awesome. my girl lets me come inside her and it just feels completely raw and natural. also its kind of taboo in our society with condoms pushed down our throats, so you get an extra kick out of it. its a turn on. you're doing the nasty things that society tells you not to do.

    come in that p**** bro. you won't regret it. and your friends will be jealous as hell!

  • I like it sometimes. But it's messy. My boyfriend loves it though so I'll let him do it occasionally. There's no guarantee that she won't get pregnant though.