Is it okay to "experiment" with your sexuality?

I'm still really unsure about my sexuality and I'd really like to try dating a woman. Is it okay to experiment with your sexuality?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, it is completely OK, just make sure that everybody involved is sure about what it is you are doing. I say this because if you want to be with a woman, that is fine, just make sure she is down with it too, because imagine how awkward/embarrassing it might be to approach a prospective mate who doesn't swing that way? If you know it is what you both want, and she understands that this is a new experience for you, then it might be a better experience overall for both of you. I believe you should be free to experience all sorts of things in life, so long as it's not hurting anybody else or is at some bodies expense.

  • Of course.

    Many women go through a "bi-curious phase", most commonly around college age (but sometimes earlier or later), and that typically lasts a couple of years. The vast majority end up going back to dating men, though some continue to be sexually attracted to women, despite not wanting to have relationships with them.

    Anyway, there's nothing wrong with exploring those feelings if you have them. You are in a period of change right now, and in a few years, you'll have a much better idea of what you want. Until then, explore and give it a fair shake.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's OK to but try dating a woman first then have the sex after and see how you feel you don't need to hop in bed with some one to know if you like them . I'm pretty sure straight people don't need to hop in bed with each other to know they like each other . I would say just take your time and date a girl that you like or are attracted to and be honest that your just trying to figure out .

  • Of course it's okay. A lot of people experiment to figure out who they are and what they like. There's nothing wrong with that. It's your life, live how you want.

  • Yes, absolutely

    You need to figure out who you are and what you like. You owe it to yourself, since, you are you for life lol

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  • Of course it's OK to experiment with your sexuality. That's the way to tell what you really like, be it being straight, a lesbian, bi, bi-curious, etc. I'm sure once you date a woman, hook up with or w/e several times, you'll be more sure and/or have a pretty good idea which one you are or enjoy the most. You alone are responsible for your life and what you want to pursue in seeking happiness. No one else can do it for you.

  • Yes, it may help you find out who you are.

  • But of course, my dear. Always. Don't be infuenced by other people's opinion and do it! How else will you know what you like. ^^

  • of course that's why its your sexuality silly :)

  • Of course. Why wouldn't it be?

  • just enjoy and experiment, sex is for that. no matter its male or female...just go for it.

  • Absolutely, if you feel like doing it then go ahead, in truth who's going to stop ya?

  • go ahead. don`t blame you for wanting to date a woman with the way men are these days JK.

    But in all serious yeah lots of girls experiment at your age.

  • you may never want a man again..

    • Doesn't sound like a bad idea :)

    • Women know how to please women and then no risk of pregnancy..good things to consider when BECOMING a lesbian...also there are many penis like objects available! Happy sexxxing

    • ahahah

  • Of course it is how else are you going to know what you are attracted to?

  • I think its very okay to experiment with your sexuality. Its healthy to explore it. Don't let society keep you from doing something you're curious about. Do what you want with your life and don't feel ashamed of what you do.

  • yes I do it.

  • Absolutely - Enjoy yourself, find out what you like best

  • It's fine.

  • yes it is.

  • Yes it is

  • That depends on how you feel about it. It sounds like you want to do it, so do it. No one else can tell you if it's okay.