Is the second time having sex better than the first?

[Anonymous]

The reason I'm asking is because my first time hurt like hell. The guy had trouble entering me and I know I was wet enough we done a lot of foreplay before we actually started having sex he fingered me, we made out, and he ate me out so I know I was wet enough. He said I was really tight down there. When does sex start to feel good? and is it true if you don't have sex for awhile things will get tight again? Geez I hope not I still want to be tight I know it feels better for a guy but I don't want to be too tight because then sex is uncomfortable.

[MrOracle]

Since you were a virgin, your hymen was probably still intact. If you don't know, your hymen is a thin membrane of skin that mostly closes off your vaginal opening. When you have sex for the first time, if you haven't torn it already via other means, it will usually tear in several places, which will mean pain and usually some bleeding. Sometimes it may only partially tear, and tear the rest of the way the next time or two. But once it is more-or-less gone, you shouldn't have that pain again.

You can still have some pain if you aren't relaxed and wet, but I doubt that was the problem here. So, yes, it should get better, maybe even lots better, after the first couple of times.

[Konpachi]

Is the second time having sex better than the first?

- For a woman it takes maybe 2-3 times for it to REALLY begin to feel good. Even sex for guys doesn't feel good until the second time. My first time just felt weird because I really didn't know what to expect but it got WAY better with time.

[sarahh_12]

It starts feeling better after the first few times! You guys start getting to know eachothers bodies better and are able to get into a flow with one another. That's when the amazing sex starts. Just make sure he goes slow at first and if it starts hurting don't push it. You're very sensitive down there still as well as tight, it takes time for things to open up a little bit. Slow and steady in the beginning, that's my tip.

[Anonymous]

The first handful of times can be pretty rough. It can also be uncomfortable if you don't have sex for a long time, but not as bad as when you first start. It just takes time.

[prettymuscle]

It depends on the next guys size and your body type