Is sex a confidence booster ?

what do you think ? does getting laid increase confidence? I think it's true, and it's more true for guys than girls, because guys have to work to get laid and it's like a reward, where as girls choose when to get laid
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Is sex in general a confidence booster? I'd say no, it isn't in all situations. It definitely depends on the nature of the situation. One night stand is a confidence killer for a female, at least it was for me when I was dumb enough to get myself into that situation (which was a long time ago). I really felt like a piece after that. For a guy though, accruing sexual conquests is probably a booster because it shows off his skill of picking up women. In a loving relationship, sex is a confidence booster. When I see how much pleasure I can give him, and how much he loves my body, it makes me love me more.

  • Sex boosts the amount of testosterone and other chemicals in the brain and bloodstream. That's why it's a confidence booster. That is, if its wanted sex and not sex that is forced or coerced or done for the wrong reasons. I've even known guys who felt like sh*t about themselves, emotionally, when they were f***ing people they didn't even feel attracted to, just because they had some issues and wanted to feel important. It backfires, sometimes.

  • Yup I do belive that sex makes you feel good even afterward, hence your confidence does boost along with your self image etc etc

    Just FYI I think your theory about that girls can choose when to get laid while its a reward for guys. That's a very STUPID ass therory with no rational backup arguments whatsoever. Exept from that this is the way YOU look a it because your an idiot. You shall now kiss my ass, good sir! :o)

Most Helpful Guys

  • this is true, everything you said...

    but, girls view sex a lot differently than guys...you have to remember that and be careful...be honest about what you want and don't want...

    its more emotional for girls, even if you're not in a relationship...but once you get that girl where you emotionally connect with, you'll be like "wow"

    anyways, yes its a confident booters and you feel a lot better about it, jsut don't wake up and regret your decision :P

    • I read that when women orgasm they release a hormone that makes their bond to the man stronger...but it doesn't happen to males...

  • Agree. There is a reason why guy friends see you as a god when you f*** new p****** regularly, while girls will label each other as sluts when sleeping around.

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  • yes, it boost 1 confidene a little for both guys and girls equally

  • Hell yeah.

  • yeah for girls getting laid is a choice, for guys it is a chore

  • It did for me. It made me feel desired and attractive and more accepting of how I look. To know you can turn someone on is really awesome.

  • not to me...