I guess maybe you could look at it that way, but honestly it's more of a sexual thing for me. For me, there's no gray area in a girl being good in bed. You either do everything I want done or you don't. I don't mean that in a dominating or disrespectful way, I just mean that for me to be sexually satisfied there cannot be things that I want to do that the girl won't do. I don't want her to do anything she doesn't want to, but if she doesn't want to, it's a deal-breaker. I feel I deserve to have all the things I want sexually, and to settle for less is cheating myself. but I want to be with a girl who WANTS to do those things and gets off on it too (it's nothing ultra-freaky by the way...just medium-freaky, haha).
but for me, a girl swallowing is hot when she WANTS IT. BLOWJOBS (and I guess sex in general) ARE ALL ABOUT ENTHUSIASM. and we're guys...romance and love aren't all that important to us when it comes to sex. that's when we want your inner-slut to come out, if you'll excuse the crude phrasing. we don't want you be like "ho-hum, I hear guys like it when girls swallow, so I'll do it even though I'm not really enthused about it." we want YOU to WANT to suck us dry, if you'll again excuse the crude phrasing, I'm just trying to be dead honest. act like you were poisoned and come is the only antidote to save you. save the love and feelings for the post-sex cuddling or when you're watching the notebook together. "LIFE IS SHORT, F*** HARD"
My ex Girlfriend not only swallowed, but she would pause and come up to my face and look me in the eye before she swallowed it. It was incredibly intimate for us. She wanted to show affection that way, that she not only loved me but she was really excited to please me. Something about swallowing me, and looking me in the eye when she did it, made her feel closer.
And you better believe I reciprocated for a girl like that. I would do anything for her in bed, because she would do anything for me.
I don't think it really matters, it sure doesn't taste really good but its not that bad either so I can swallow, my hubby sometimes wants me to spit it out and sometimes he wants me to swallow but like he said as long as he gets to come and I'm comfortable with it he doesn't matter where it goes.
it sign of neither. its a sign of whether you are comfortable in swallowing a sticky gooey liquid ...yuck. I have never done that
But you were made part from that sticky gooey liquid. So, you hate half of yourself?
ya well I am made of blood, muscles and bones too..but I am not going ot eat them...seriously grow some brains
You couldn't think of a better comeback? Pfft, rather pathetic.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Its nice, just gives the guy a feeling of special about him, to have a women swallow his juices, is a nice feeling, but this will only mean something if your in a committed relationship, otherwise its not concidered at all really. Because to swallow any blokes cum, would deem you somewhat, dirty, so be aware of this phase, " do you spit or swallow" because its a phase guys will judge you on if they don't know you well,x
so your saying that because I swallow I'm a slut?
"I love it when a girl swallows but I'll judge her negatively if she does!"
if you go around sucking on every bloke then yeah, I suppose I am, but if you don't then you don't have anything to worry about.
To me, it is.
Swallowing completes the blow job. It says I care enough about satisfying you that I will finish what I started. Not swallowing is like saying well that's good enough. Guess what, it isn't good enough!
Lol Eh I wouldn't say it's a sign of Love or Respect in all aspects. I'm sure there are some swallowers out there that do it just on a hook up..no love involved. If your dating a girl and she swallows and it's out of her comfort zone then yeah I would say it's for Love. It honestly dosen't matter to me. If the girl is comfortable with it then horray but if she's uncomfortable with it then it's fine by me. I couldn't imagine how uncomfortable and gross tasting it could be lol.
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I agree. lol
Been with a few girls in my life and I have to say that it does effect my feeling after sex. I understand that its a lttle gross so when she swallow it, it feels that she accept even the worse part of you. Not all guys might feel this way but if you want to have an ideas of what it feels like for me: pick a part of your body that you like least/ hate most and have your man kiss it and corest gentally very time you two make love.
My current girlfriend can't swallow my whole penis but I love it when she notice that my am finishing and speed up to the finishing point then slowly slow to a stop over a peroid of around a minute. Then clean it off until it shiny. During all this she have the facial expression that said: "you just got owned" and "I am so proud of myself" at the same time.
It seem like the last 90 second of a blow job is worth 80% of the mark. If she or I have to rush to.the washroom to clean up. It spoil the mood.
So in short it is important.
I think it makes me feel like she really likes me and is really into making me feel good when she swallows. It's kind of a turn off when a girl acts like it's all gross and spits it out but I understand why lots do.
What is important to me is that she finish me in her mouth while sucking and stroking and know what to do just before, during and just after ejaculation. the most 60 seconds of a BJ. Getting this right is the best show of intimacy and affection. Once ejaculation is done, I actually prefer she spit into her own hand and show me how well she did. Swallowing (she says it is like heavy bitter phlegm) is a chore for her and I never get to see how big the load was.
How she manages that single minute means everything to the enjoyment of a BJ and my feelings after it. Japanese/Asian AV is the best way to see how this is done. Seldom extreme or showy, just technically proficient.
Ye it is nice when the girl goes the extra mile, she doesn't mind swallowing and expecially if she makes sure to clean him up well, there is usually a little extra come left after the main load and it is awkward to deal with for guys unless she cleans it off.
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