Girls, is the size of a guys dick important?

[Jef86]

Can you tell if the size of a guys dick is important for you.
In case of yes please tell what size you prefer.

[wingattebaby16]

I prefer guys on the big size. Big to me is 8"+, closer to 9" is best. Thick is more satisfying, like 7" around.

I know a lot of girls that say size doesn't matter, but most of them have never or seldom had a big dick.

I admit my first boyfriend I had sex with was really big and long. It took him 3 weeks of sex 3 or 4 times a week before I was able to finally take all of him! Every other guy after him left me feeling empty and wanting more. (Since girls tell me I am lying, if you want to know how big he was, Message me.)

Just like the majority of guys want a woman with large breasts (D or DD cup), a narrow waist (20" to 25"), wide hips (34" to 38"), and a curvy butt, I feel as a woman, I have the right to want a guy in good shape, with a flat tummy, cute butt, and a big long penis.

Sex is an important part of life! Most of my sisters are married and every one of them had sex before marriage. They have told me so many times, "Cassie, don't marry a man with a small penis. It will only cause problems in the bedroom and ruin your marriage."

I have had sex with 30+ guys in my life, and the guys with "little man syndrome" have always had some kind of emo problem where they are trying to make up for not having what it takes in the penis dept. I even have had a few beat me up and end up dumping me for a girl with big boobs, etc. (as above).

TBH, as long as you find a girl that you click with, emotionally and sexually, then stick with her.

My 2 cents worth... haters of girls that love big dick can keep their opinions to themselves.

p. s. you can message me if you want more info and I like talking to peeps that are real.

[Jef86]

Thanks for your opinion ;-)

[LittleLila]

In my personal experience, if rather a completely average sized dick. Because most of the dudes I've been with, all the guys that know they're above average size have been absolutely terrible in bed. Whereas the boys with normal, even under average size, are normally hard workers in the bedroom. Guys with average dicks satisfy me 100x more than any dude with a 'big dick'. Plus, dudes with big dicks seem to more often than not, be big dicks themselves. Like they think they've been graced with the best thing since sliced bread. How wrong they are.

[Jef86]

To bad i already selected my MHO. Your opinion is much better.

[LittleLila]

Haha aww, oh well. Thanks anyway :)

[kaylaS91]

It would be even nicer if you used the search function on this site and read the answer from all of the other questions almost exactly like this one, pretty much posted on a daily basis.

[SarahD094]

I wouldn't say it's important but it does matter on some level. Like I'm not going to leave someone even if they are extremely small/big. Like everyone says, it depends more on how you use it. But too big can be painful and too small you just don't feel as much.

[Unluckyladybeauty]

If he knows what he's doing it doesn't matter!

[Jef86]

I guess that it is mostly true ;-)

[Loulouchuchu]

5.5 -7 inches preferably. No bigger than that x

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

Yes. There was a case recently in Nigeria when a woman wanted to divorce her husband because his penis was too big.

I am all for Mr Average - I don't want a monster but I don't a shrimp either. So, yes, its important for comfort and pleasure because a penis is like an octopus and wants to explore all types of openings 😜

[Jef86]

So it is important to be normal and use well ;-)

[Starrx]

I remember reading about this, I thought it was amusing and embarrassing.

[evelyn26]

Well, I've only ever had one in my life and he says it's 7 inch don't know hah
It depends on how they use it. Their moves. In order to hit the spot it has to be long no?
Wish guys were more focused on using their penis to pleasure and give their partner an orgasm. I've never had one with his real penis (only once came close.) Toys do the job lol

[Jef86]

Seems like you are hard to please (or the boys you're dated didn't enough effort.

[AdviceTerrier]

g spot is different for everyone, but a lot of women report it being within finger reach (not everyone, like I said everyone's different) so it doesn't require an extra long penis to reach. In fact, men with smaller penises tend to have an easier time reaching the g spot.

[evelyn26]

I've only had sex with one guy. He was 20 when we started and I ws 24. I was a virgin before. He doesn't try. I give him bjs everytime before sex, foreplay and let him go at it with me until he finishes. Which is 5-10 mins. He doesn't try to please me , only himself. I wish he would play with me more before sex.

[evelyn26]

@AdviceTerrier I know where mine is lol but he doesn't t ry to find it. Guys, the younger ones just want to satisfy their needs. But what about us girls?

[AdviceTerrier]

Dump his ass and find someone who's considerate of your sexual needs

[evelyn26]

@AdviceTerrier Girl, I'm in the process. We got into an argument last night over text. He's so immature and doesn't try to understand me. I've always been there for him. I gave him a second chance (found out he was cheating last month.) I give him everything he wants sexually (anal too) and still he doesn't try to please me.

[Jef86]

@evelyn26 really, a huy like that isn't worth much, I'm sure you can find a guy that likes to give you pleasure too. I get even more pleasure to see my girl enjoy then enjoying myself. Having both pleasure makes it complete.

[AdviceTerrier]

Literally everything that Jef just said, girl. He cheated on you and he doesn't even respect that you have sexual needs. It doesn't sound like he's emotionally mature enough for an adult relationship.

[evelyn26]

Yeah you're right, I like pleasuring him. It makes me feel good and turns me on too. I hope there's a guy that can do that for me because I give my all always.

[evelyn26]

@AdviceTerrier You're right too. He is not ready or does not want to have a real relationship. Good luck to you.

[AdviceTerrier]

To you too

[mirandakanet]

It is not a deal breaker for me by any means. When it comes down to it I care more about performance, and what you can do with what you were given, than how many inches your member is.

[mmmbdison]

I won't dump anybody with a small penis, micro or not. As long as they're willing to explore and find ways to satisfy me otherwise, I'm down for them. If I had to choose, yeah, a guy with a bigger dick would work.

But the only guy I would ever dump was someone who was insecure about their size. There's nothing you can do about it so own it while you have it. No sense in being sad about something you can't control. It's also nice to be with someone who recognizes I can't really control your size that much either, so there is only so much I can console someone on when they're sad about their dick.

Sex is supposed to be fun, just enjoy it for what it is!

[gasksg]

Depends on how good he is with his fingers and tongue lol

[jenidsouza4u]

Length 7"-9" is enough. not more than that. But not only the size is important. There are a lot of things.

[Kimikiwi]

Well I don't think it is THAT important really but I personally prefer small ones.
By My experience, big ones only hurts and they can't penetrate as fast as small ones can. Small ones gives more pleasure for me aswell since I am very sensetive (maybe over sensetive).
It's all about taste, really.

[SamanthaJane]

As long as he knows how to use it, size doesn't matter to me.

[Jef86]

The one and only truth.

[SamanthaJane]

Yes sir. I've been with guys who were hung but made it hurt in a bad way. I've also been with guys who were smaller but damn could they work their equipment and they knew all the right ways to make me a very happy girl.

[mea106]

Honestly a good 5-7 inches is perfect for me l, especially if they know how to work it. Anything bigger than that can be a bit much

[randomhobo]

So long as its not above 7" or below 4" im happy. Same applies for girls, 4-7", although they softer and cuter so get more chance for leeway. Its just because too small isn't pleasurable and too big hurts.

[Warmapplecrumble]

I think the same way too :-)

[Jef86]

Ok, but I think a lot of guys are in that range ;-)

[randomhobo]

They are, its why its not a big deal to me.

[Jef86]

Ok, so you said no then

[randomhobo]

I voted no as not important, just gotta meet that criteria. Also those votes look inflated, I've never seen over 1000 votes on a poll before.

[Jef86]

Me neither, but I'm also a bit new here. Responding to all opinions is maybe the trick, this question is already online for ten days now D-)

[Turkish_Delight]

It doesn't really matter unless it is way to small. Thickness is also important. Researches show that girls are also pleased with not so long but thick dicks. Anyway, dicks are not the first places to look at when picking up guys 😅

[Jef86]

I guess thickness is also part of size 😉

[Turkish_Delight]

That's what reserches say I really don't care

[laurapalmer]

I would rather be with someone who is kind and has a small dick than someone who is an asshole and has a big dick. So no, size doesn't matter. It's all about their personality.

[Jef86]

Thanks for your great opinion. I guess personality is indeed the most important.

[sweetlivy]

Why would personality matter due to the pleasure though?

[MissChocomilk]

I dont know what to say on this. Never seen one so far yet.

[GirlFromSweden]

It can't be too big because it will be painful. Too small and you don't feel as much. Somewhere between 5.5-6.5 inches is fine

[DerbyPi]

I’m not gonna lie. I prefer six to seven inches. I like it when they hit my cervix—but I don’t want them to pound the crap out of it.

[Jef86]

I prefer honest opinions, thanks.

[DerbyPi]

No prob.

[Jef86]

And about thickness?

[DerbyPi]

Two inches diameter max. I prefer a bit less than that.

[Jef86]

Thanks for your opinion, if you want to know about me...

[lostgirl_searching]

Not to me, no.

[lostgirl_searching]

I'm a virgin and it's because I don't really care about sex anyway. So I personally don't care about size.

[MaraAutumn21]

6 maybe 6 1/2 to 8 at most

[Jef86]

Ok, average or a bit above, I'm in that range :-P

[grlpwr]

Wow I was in a sex shop and looked at a 9" dildo it would be horrible for me. 5/6" is perfect but I'm small. I had a boyfriend that was close to 8 and it hurt every time.

[Jef86]

What size are you?

[SouthernChica]

For me its all about technique. I've had guys from 5 to 8 inches but it all boiled down to whether or not they knew how to use it.

[Jef86]

I guess that is the most important indeed.

[DivaMonae]

No it's not but for those that believe that it is girth is more important than inches.

[Calsiren]

I'm a size queen? So I mean anything less than 8 doesn't do it for me. Not that I wouldn't date a guy with a smaller dick, he just better get inventive in bed

[Jef86]

is there an absolute minimum for you what can do the trick?

[DizzyDesii]

Crap I hit no by accident. To me, looks and performance are important. I'd say 7 inches is perfect. But the lowest I'd go is 6

[Jef86]

Too bad for your mistake, it looks like it is really close

[Mcglynnergirl]

Lol but you still find that guy sexy? 🙄 come on @dizzydesii you know he ain't

[johanmdsn]

Honestly to most girls, the size of a guys dick is NOT important. There's this stereotype that all girls like guys with big dicks and will only date a guy if he had a big one but it is all a myth. Every girl has preferences in size, some like it big, some just medium but what a girl is looking for in terms of sexual attraction is how good that guy is in bed. Besides, penetration is penetration and sex is sex so it will still turn the girl on depending on how well you are. And you should never keep a girl who only cares about dick size as that is so superficial. I look for a guy who has a great personality.

[MissMonstaz]

Nope. Had better experience with a guy that had a smaller dick than my previous partners.

What matters is the performance and being able to satisfy your partner the way she wants to be satisfied. Everyone is different so not everything works the same way with everyone.

[Jef86]

I guess a lot of guys with a big dick don't think they have to do any effort.

[MissMonstaz]

That's a good point. Never thought of that. You might be right then!

[Baitedfaun469]

I'm ok with average (5") or more. 7" are amazing! I prefer long to thick. if he's too thick, he'll stretch you out too quickly and then sex is no fun.

[Jef86]

Good, what is the thickest that you like?

[Baitedfaun469]

probably 2" around. big enough to touch everything but not so big it stretches me to my limit.

[Blondenurse90]

Of course it don't matter... you could have a guy with an 9+ inched penis and be absolutely rubbish with it, poking aimlessly whilst looking down at you looking for reassurance whilst your lying there thinking of England and how much your craving a custard cream with of cup of tea😂. Or you get a small one who has better rhythm, fantactic with his mouth and hands exploring every crevice. X