Is there a reason why he left his shirt on during sex?

Just that. I managed to get him to take his boxers off after some struggling for about 30 minutes but I could not for the life of me get him to take his undershirt/tank off. He's not overweight but he's not fit either. Maybe I'm making more of this than it actually is, but I just feel...awkward about being completely naked when he wasn't.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You had to struggle for about 30 minutes to get his boxers off? WoW. That's pretty interesting. Okay, he probably left his shirt on because there is something about or on his body he doesn't like, embarrassed about, and just doesn't want you to see. I understand that you wanted him to be totally bare just like you, but I say you should give him a little bit of time. Let him keep his shirt on a few more times. Maybe he will eventually feel better and take it off. Show some respect for his privacy or insecurity for some time. It should actually make him more emotionally connected to you because he will see that you care about his feelings, and are not gonna force him to do something he's not comfortable with. If you were insecure about taking your bra off for example, you would really appreciate if he let it go rather than fighting you to get it off. Know what I mean? You can also try sitting down with him and talking about why he's not comfortable taking his shirt off. Maybe there is something you can do to help. Give it a try.

    Good luck.

    • That seems like my only option because I don't want to make him uncomfortable in any way. The bra thing did happen actually so I can understand.

    • Barter for a blow job. My guy would leave his shirt on and wouldn't discuss why so I explained what I was going to do to do with him and removed his shirt and he wanted to know my obsession and I stated I loved his soft silky skin.

  • He is just self conscious. Even if you think he looks great, he doesn't feel that way about himself.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I have a friend who every time she has sex with her boyfriend he refuses to take his shirt off. He is very self conscious. She said he used to be a body builder and very muscular but now he is smaller and a teeny bit flabby.. not fat fat but just not in shape. So he is insecure and leaves it on despite her protests... maybe tats the same thing with him. Insecure.

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  • Hair, manboobs, a tattoo, a scar he's not proud about?

    Your guess is as good as mine.

  • He's just shy about his body.

  • It seems he was very self conscious.

  • hair I'm guessing ?

  • Maybe he doesn't want you to see his flab (as minimal as it might be), maybe he sweats and it looks gross, an embarrassing tattoo, insecure about his body hair