Is this fantasy fucked up?

Question

I fantasize about tying someone slapping him hard kind of tortuturing him and make him begg for mercy in front of my boyfriend which turns my boyfriend on then he takes me upstairs and fucks me really hard and really rough

lord_chilled · Accepted Answer

Fucked up is an understatement.
This may just be my opinion, but i dont get the association between violence and sex.
I understand violence,
I understand sex.
But the two dont mix with me. so i find anything like this weird.

Plus , i dont like the idea of torture , especially while bound, taking away all power and freedom.

I can get to the point of beating someone uo, for pure anger or as retribution.
I could understand killing someone too.
But torturing someone, humiliating them and taking pleasure in their pain is just wrong.
I wouldn't do that, to my worst enemy.
This is my view regarding violence.

As for sex, i dont like any of that stuff to be involved in romance between a man and a woman.
And i dont like 3rd parties being involved either, not even as an idle observer.

es20490446e · Accepted Answer

Fucked upstairs.

LadyAvon · Accepted Answer

Make sure you find someone actually willing to do this. Why they would consent is beyond me, but I know there's people like that.

thecutejhanvi · Accepted Answer

That's weird. But yeah, everyone has their own fantasy. So if you like or that way, good for you.

SnapTsch · Answer

Not a fucked up fantasy Just odd

Billlewis · Answer

I don't think it's fucked up at all -- I think it's incredibly hot... and I wish I could be the guy who gets slapped and abused:)

JimRSmith · Answer

As long as you don't act it out, it's none of anybody else's business, to be frank.

Cammy137 · Answer

Sounds like a normal Friday to me

bopeep0388 · Answer

What happens to the person you tied up

Longlegs1979 · Answer

You like S&M huh.

jacquesvol · Answer

Stay far from me, please.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

That's actually kinda hot.  I once had a girlfriend with a psychopathic side like that. It was a real turn on being with someone who was sorta like me.

OwenVos · Answer

You may be a little sadistic. But hey if he's into it cool

DamnMan · Answer

Really? Why does he have to take you upstairs? lol.

abradolf_lincler · Answer

Wow. That was my genuine reaction, I audibly said "wow". Get in touch with Quentin Tarantino, he'd shoot that, you could make millions

2opaz · Answer

Sicko

AnandoRudra · Answer

Like that

TheRish · Answer

Have you done that before when and how?

prudvulp · Answer

And what happens to the obe tied up n slapped?

greNader · Answer

No but it won't happen

CT_CD · Answer

You can do it to me

Tim-loves-it · Answer

I see nothing wrong with it

AlexDelux · Answer

No just a fetish

Ailko · Answer

I think it isn't too fucked up and about acting on it one day all I can recommend is looking for someone willing to do it on some forums or something

Mcluven · Answer

Its mild

weaverman · Answer

Sounds fun lol x

Rustyshacklefors · Answer

Is it fucked up I'm into it. Yeah, your fine. Lots of odd stuff runs through our heads. Its only when the bad things get acted on. But yours doesn't even need to be bad to start if there is consent all around.