Is it true that getting blindfolded and tied increases sexual pleasure?

I want to tie my boyfriend up and blindfold him, then give him head/ride him, etc. but I was wondering if it's actually true that it increases sexual pleasure, or if it's just kinda frustrating for the guy? I think him not knowing exactly what I'm going to do next would be hot tho
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  • It really depends on the person's attitude. Some will think it's totally hot, and it's going to force them to focus on the senses that are still functional, so it will enhance focus. Other people will just be uncomfortable, or bored, or even freaked out by stuff like that. it's best to bring it up outside of the bedroom, and ask him what he thinks of the idea. If he isn't positive about the concept, then forget about it, but if he is, then tell him you are interested too, and you can start planning on a fun evening.

  • i don't know that tying someone up will increase pleasure unless someone derives pleasure from that particular act

    but I think being blindfolded can biologically alter the pleasure (for better or worse) because rather than sensing things with eyes the sensory receptors are based entirely on feel. So in that way that a blind person's sense of hearing may be heightened because they don't use their eyesight I'd imagine feel/touch senses may be heightened when blindfolded

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  • my boyfriend got steel in his eyes (can't remember why though) anyways I was working for an ophthalmologist at the time and he got the steel shavings out of his eyes and put bandages over his eyes for like a day or so. anyways we ended up having sex while he had the bandages on his eyes and he told me it was the best sex he's ever had.

    ps. I kind of liked it to because I was in total control and enjoyed every bit of it as much as he did... damn I miss him lol

  • Yes it gives you a huge thrill of not knowing what is going to happen next! Go for it will really spice things up for you both.

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  • Not for me :D I'd never be comfortable either blindfolded or being tied also I'm not too comfortable doing it to someone who is in that state too. I prefer interaction, touching and visibility.

  • Being tied up, blind and teased, can be hot as hell for the right person.

    Old silk neckties are great for restraints. Comfy and strong. At least that's what she said. >:D

  • Yes, for me it is. Knowing she is in control and not knowing what she is going to do next is definitely a turn-on and makes the feeling more intense.

  • To say it increases sexual pleasure isn't exactly correct. If you're into that kind of thing, it increases arousal and makes the sex more mentally thrilling.

  • I heard a story once when I was a teen, there was a guy who went on a date with this girl. she brought him back to her place with the idea they were gonna have sex. she then asks to tie him to her bedframe. once the guy was secured, she got up, went to a door, opened it, and there was this black guy there who ran in, and proceeded to assrape the surprised guy who could not escape nor defend himself.

    once the story was finished, I was turned off forever to any kinky sex ideas that involved bondage.

  • Only if my special lady and I are kung fu fighting. She was fast as lightning. And yes she is a little bit frightening. But we have a great sex life...HYAAA