Is it true that once you go black..

Question

you never go back ?

LilyBee · Accepted Answer

lol I'm black and I think that's a personal thing. a lot of people like variety, so they just might "go back" ha ha of course I have met a lot of people who say they really like black guys. I can't say I've heard the same about black girls other than online, but I know people who are open to it.

well no that's not true. I know some lesbians and other bisexuals who feel that way about black girls, but I've never heard like a straight, hetero, non-black guy say that. wait nvm, yes I have but he was asian. ha ha I'll shut up now I don't know where I'm going with this but you get the idea.

on the flip side, I know a lot of black girls who feel the opposite about guys, meaning they either don't like black guys or theyve been there and don't feel like going back. lol one of my friends grew up around black people (yes she's black too) and she's dated black guys but now she doesn't date them at all because she says her worst relationships were with black guys, she seems to have bad luck with them so she avoids them. she likes black girls though. with guys, she has actually told me "once you go white, it's pretty f***in hot" and also "white is right" or something like that. she was just trying to be funny though within the context of the conversation.

i think we ALL know plenty of black guys have gone to interracial dating after having grown up around or dated black girls. a lot of them did not come back. lmao

i haven't had a real boyfriend or girlfriend yet (im bi) but I kind of feel the same as my friend I just mentioned, but not so much the racist "black guys make sucky boyfriends" logic behind it. lol I grew up in a manner in which the opposite was emphasized more so than my own "race", black. I had more friendships and things with black girls than guys so I think that also impacts what I'm attracted to. I think this is what matters. I think people are more complicated than little cliched phrases about how oh so awesome one race is. some people do have a fetish or strong attraction for one race and can't get enough. so for them, yeah this would be true. other people don't give a sh*t. others like diversity and so many different types. blah blah blah

LackusDeltacus · Accepted Answer

Yeah. And once you go white you won't never be as tight!

G_GTom · Accepted Answer

Well, I think there are certain stereotypes that entice women to date black men. So, do I want to date a woman who has those preferences?  Not really.  So whether she wants to go back or not, I don't want her :)