Is it a turn off if a girl gets too wet?

Whenever me and my boyfriend have sex I always get super wet, I mean really really wet. His penis is always soaked and there is always a small mark left on the bed sheets. I get very embarrassed about this, my boyfriend says its fine and nothing to be ashamed of but I can't help thinking he finds it gross.
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  • You have used terms like too wet, super wet, really really wet. Many on here seem to ignore that and tell you that it is normal to get wet. Okay, you know that is normal, but you are talking of abnormal amounts of lubricant.

    That can be a problem. When the girl gets that wet things slip so much that the enjoyable pull disappears. There has to be a little friction, a little tug, to get the best enjoyment, and too much lubricant prevents this. Even if it didn't, the issue is bothering you.

    There is probably nothing you can do to cut the amount. But you can deal with it. When you get over-lubricated, have him momentarily pull out (if he is in) and quickly wipe your vulva and his penis with a cloth then resume. There will be plenty of lubricant left in the vagina to completely take car of things. He should not mind doing this, but actually like it, as it is a reminder of how excited you are, and it gives him another chance at looking at the source of his pleasure.

  • 1. It's normal.

    2. It's desirable (it makes the guy feel like he is really turning you on).

    3. It's frickin' NORMAL!

Most Helpful Girl

  • if he thought it was gross then he wouldn't be sleeping with you.

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  • I simply don't understand how being highly aroused could be offputting to anyone.

  • It's nbd you're supposed to be wet it's a natural lubricant. Some people find it to be a turn off while others don't mind it's all about personal preference. If he says it doesn't bother him then just take his word for it

  • then put a towel on the bed to avoid stains. altering positions actually also helps with that (or so I found out).

  • god no guys love it when you are wet its a turn on

    • PMSL ! D'ya think? =D

  • I think its hot in principle, but it might get annoying with the bed always being soaked.

  • definitely not a turn off

  • No of course not

  • that would turn me ON! Don't worry about it

  • Seems like it would be hot, the extra wetness would only make it feel better wouldn't it

  • That would turn me on. Girl is wet=she likes me and what I'm doing.