Guys as a general rule do not tend to save themselves for marriage because they don't really have reason to, virgin girls don't care if the guy is experienced or not but still even prefer experienced guys for their first time. Non virgin girls also prefer a guy with experience, because there is a belief that virgin guys have no clue in the slightest how to have sex..
Virgin girls on the other hand are prized by guys who are and arn't virgins, they are considered for marriage material and for a lot of guys considered an accomplishment to be able to be the first. See the difference? guys also pressure each other to lose it so by keeping their virginity, they are considered a loser and its still not exactly a good thing for most girls.
I am a virgin waiting for marriage, for a girl who is also a virgin but I still have high doubts it would mean much to her since the majority of virgin girls are not bothered by a guy keeping it
I think you are a treasure.
few girls virgin or not like virgin guys, the majority prefer an experienced guy, you are rare
Only you can decide if that's too much to ask for. But you need to be realistic too. Most men in your age group won't be virgins, so you're probably limiting yourself to around 5% of the male population. And that 5% is going to include a lot of guys who have little confidence around women.
What I'm getting at is that you shouldn't be surprised that most of the guys you are attracted to aren't virgins, because the traits that generally make men attractive to women (confidence being the biggest) work against the guy being a virgin.
If you date younger guys, then your chances of finding a virgin go up, but most women tend to want men their age or older, so your rule is going to make it much harder for you to find a mate that is a virgin and compatible in all the other important ways. I'm not saying it's impossible, but don't expect it to be easy.
yeah, I see what your saying. But luckily for me, I don't want an older guy, so at least that helps me a little.
No but its going to be very hard to find one. I was a virgin when I got married and the guy had been with over 20 women. I still till this day am pissed that he took my virginity because he didn't deserve it. A while back I talked to guy who had been with over 30 women and when he found out that I had been married and not a virgin, he said that I didn't deserve him cause he wanted a virgin. Its bullsh*t and its not fair at all. I think a virgin deserves a virgin and a whore deserves a whore. There are guys out there who may have only been with 1 or 2 people and maybe you would be OK with that. The fact that your in your late twenties and are waiting for marriage to have sex is really nice and you deserve a virgin in my opinion. I hope you can find someone and I'm sure there has to be some virgins out there for you. Also, if you love someone then it might not matter to you anyways.
woah, that is a lot of women. That guy you were talking who had 30 girls is a piece of sh*t. Men like that feel like they are entitled to have as many women as they want, but expect a virgin for a bride. Those guys are more likely to cheat, put you last, & make you miserable. I hope some poor girl really doesn't fall for him & waste her viriginity on him. The best karma would be a player girl whose had tons of men telling him she is virgin & so then he'd really get what he deserves.
That would be the best karma. Did you know that a girl can have surgery and have a new hymen made for her and they can tighten her pelvic muscles so she will physically be a virgin again. I really hope that happens to all these players. Your right about men like that who do cheat and treat their wives like sh*t. My husband did that and made my life miserable. I just wish I could get my virginity back from that piece of sh*t cause he didn't deserve it.
Not too much to ask for at all. As a virgin, I really could care less if the guy I end up giving it to is a virgin or a nonvirgin, it's about the person for me. HOWEVER, I do judge the guys I meet based on how they judge others.
For example, If a guy has slept around, and isn't judgmental of girls doing the same thing he has, I don't care at all, he's not too slutty for me. But I also know guys who have slept with like 5 girls, and then judge girls for doing the exact same thing, saying how they prefer virgins and so on. Complete turn off and I then judge them in the same way, he's too slutty for me. It's interesting really, how I can see a guy with 5 partners as being more slutty than a guy with 20, but it's all in how harsh they judge.
yeah, the user dudeman is a good example of one of those guys. He talks about how he won't marry a girl unless she is virgin, but is not one himself. He blames biology & thinks men are entitled to have sex, while women are not. He's a sexist pig, & he'd be the last guy I'd marry.
I totally agree dudeman is a pig. He doesn't even realize it and thinks he's some catch, but he's alone. Clearly other women see what we see and no one will put up with his sexist attitude. If you've decided to save yourself for marriage, and want a man who has done the same, more power to you. Don't let guys fool you into thinking those standards are too "high" for men, they expect it out of women all the time (especially on this site).
thanks, & nice to know someone shares my distaste for dudeman & his hypocrisy.
No. I waited for marriage and my now ex didn't. Guys who get around but expect their future wife to be virgins are all douches and will probably end up cheating anyway because they already have this sense of entitlement. Meaning they think men can do whatever they want but women have to be pure and obedient. Don't settle, you deserve better. It won't be easy but they are out there.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It's not wrong to want, but I wouldn't make that the focus point of your search for Mr. Right. Finding someone who understands you, respects you, loves you, shares your interests and goals, and wants to make you happy is far more important than finding someone who hasn't had sex. If that person happens to be a virgin, great. But if they have had one or two partners, I wouldn't write them off because of it.
okay, thanks
Theres a ton of virgins on here myself included lol. Have a look around I guess haha
lol, thanks
I'm all your sweetums!
lol
No, but good luck. They're few and far between. This site has a lot of them though so try and find one here. haha
lol, thanks
i'm a virgin, would love to be with a virgin girl
would you date a 26 year old girl?
i'm 23, so a 3 year age difference isn't that bad
I ask the same thing. But no its not
Late answer here, however I'd still like to give my 2¢ worth.
No, I don't think its too much to ask for.
It seems that way simply because its a rarity.
However having said this, I'm in my mid-twenties and I'm not "experienced".
I'm reasonably "normal", whatever that is, in other areas of my life.
I'm into sports, mostly swimming (the other tall guy sport). Play guitar in my church band.
I'm waiting to share this experience with my wife, who more than likely, I don't rule out non-waiters. But I believe it speaks volumes about your character, perseverance, and commitment.
There are waiting guys around just we're few in number, as I understand it.
Nope but good luck
No it's fine I just hate those guys who sleep around a lot and expect a girl who is a virgin. However you may find difficulty finding a virgin nowadays unless you are part of a religious community.
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