Is it weird for a guy to like his nipples played with?

If you would have asked me about a year ago, I would have thought it was weird. But, I began dating a chick that had a thing for playing with and licking my nipples. At first I thought it was awkward and odd, but after a while, I noticed it felt really good! Me and that girl broke up and now I'm wondering if my new girlfriend will think it's weird if I ask her to lick them or play with them since I'm a guy? It's not something I have to have, but if I like it, why not? Should I ask her to do it or should I just keep that to myself? Have you ever been with a guy that liked his nipples pleasured?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • i have always liked to play with a man's nipples. I enjoy it so much when mine are played with, so I assume that it could feel good for a man too. he just needs to be comfortable enough with it. some are uptight about it cause they think it might make them seem gay

    but everyone's got nipples and they're usually sensitive enough to make playing with them enjoyable

    im not sure how you could go about asking her though

    when I play with a guys nipples, first I put my hand up his shirt while we're making out, and I run my hand over them. then I run my fingers over it, and play with it and if he doesn't stop me, then when we're kissing more, and his shirt is off, I'll kiss him all over, and give the nipples some attention

    so maybe guide her hands to your nipples and see what she does

    • She has done something similiar to what you're talking about before. We were just kinda laying around one night watching a movie and she kept rubbing her hands across them. I know she had to have figured out that I liked that, cause every time she did, I would kinda do that full body shiver thingy, and they got REALLY hard REALLY fast! lol. I know she wouldn't mind, but I just didn't want her to do something she felt weird doing. But, from what you said, sounds like she may want to do it anyway.

    • if she did that, then I definitely don't think she would feel weird about that :)

  • Here's a little secret... I've never desired to play with a man's nipples, but in my current relationship, I'm so attracted to my man that I've been kind of dreaming of playing with his. I haven't, though, cause I know he hasn't done it before. Try mentioning in passing that you like it, if you can... who knows! ;) Everyone has their quirks!

    • what about a womans nipples?

    • lol, I appreciate you letting me in on that Little Secret, haha! Ok, I'll try that, we'll see what happens. I know she loves me to death, but I didn't wanna weird her out or anything, so I figured I would ask about it on here. lol

    • Man's nipples serve no real purpose. It's something evolution just couldn't be bothered with, so it just stayed there. When a person is aroused enough (male or female), anything can become "hot". My nipples are as sensitive as the rest of my chest; I mean there's no difference really.

  • I had a boyfriend who enjoyed that as well, I felt kinda awkard playing with his nipples and don't really enjoy it to this day but I think a lot of guys are into it. I imagine it feels the same basically as how a girl feels when hers are played with. But I don't think it is out of the ordinary for a guy to enjoy it.

    • lol, ok! Now I don't feel AS weird. lol, thanks for your comment.

Most Helpful Guys

  • i was hooking up with this girl and seh started doing it (rubbing it the same way id rub hers) at first I was like "ok this feels weird but not that bad" but later when I was thinking about it I got really creeped out because it made me feel like less of a man because it's what I do to girls! so no I'd rather not have it done again

    • it still creeps me out

  • Haha, my fiancee does this to me all the time. I never would've wanted anyone to do it to me, but she likes to do it and it started getting to be a real turn on. I never understood why she did it, but she does.

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  • no she wouldn't mind at all... she would love to play with your nipples if it makes you happy. if my guy asks me to do it I would...and not for one sec will I think that there is something wrong with him

  • Not weird at all. Its so sensitive.