Is it weird that he is quiet when I go down on him?

ok so whenever I give my boyfriend a blow job or a hand job he is really quiet he doesn't moan or say anything he just breaths deeper and louder. He has told me in convo that he loves when I do that and when I do it he cums so I know it feels good. But why is he so quiet and how do I change it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Most guys are quiet during sex. That doesn't mean they don't like it. If you ever listen to ANYONE having sex, even if you look at porn, you don't heare PEOPLE having sex, you hear WOMEN having sex. Women are vocal during sex, men aren't. That doesn't mean we don't still enjoy it as much as someone who IS vocal. (there are some guys, but not many out there who are vocal during sex).

    I'm pretty sure you can't change it. You could talk to him about it and ask him to be more vocal, but why would you want him to force it? Then it would be like he was faking it, lol.

    If you're trying to find a way to make him feel so good that he moans or something... I don't know if that's gonna happen no matter how good you are... I know that even my most intense orgasms have been mostly silent... I mean there's some heavy breathing and occasionally some grunting but I've never really moaned or screamed or anything... That's kind of reserved mostly for women. :-P

    You're doing nothing wrong, you don't need to make him moan and grown to be doing it well.

  • He may be quiet because he is just enjoying what you are doing for him. I'm the same way, I love to have a girl give me a bj or hj and I am quiet and just enjoying the pleasure she is giving me.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's not weird, but you can change this if next time you give him a BJ you tell him (sexily) that you love to hear him vocalize how good it feels.

    I love it when guys are loud in bed and I've had the good fortune of dating and hooking up with a lot of men who love to talk dirty and it is such a turn on. Just tell him how hot it'll make you and I'm sure he'll oblige!

  • He might not know what to say or he’s enjoying it. It also might not be his thing to do. You know that he likes it. Maybe before you give him a blow job tell him that you want to know that he’s enjoying it.

  • my guy says that no matter what I am doing to him it feels great! he is quiet because he doesn't ever want to say the wrong thing! for me, quiet is a good thing =D

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  • Some are loud when they come, some are quiet. You have a quiet one.

    Can he become a loud one? Maybe. I wouldn't bet on it.

  • women are more verbal than guys. We can't concentrate... I mean it takes a lot of blood to get us hard, so it deprives the blood to our brain.

    We only have enough blood to run one head at a time you know... lol

    • Hahahah

  • Men don't talk much during sex, we just breathe harder and faster, and when were about to come we moan. that's all it is. lol

    • Hahaha, that's 100% truee:)

  • no, not weird, I don't make any noises either

  • nahh its not weird. Just let him know that your ok with hearing him lol