Is it weird that I sometimes fantasize about being raped?

Sometimes I like to fantasize about being raped. Sometimes I imagine a guy I'm attracted to, or sometimes I imagine a group of men I don't know... Is this weird, or does anything else fantasize about being raped?
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  • Everyone has their own definition of what is considered ` normal` .

    What you are describing is known as Rape fantasies and a lot of women have them but this does not mean that they would actually like to be raped, they just want to be forced to have sex in a consenual way.

    A Rape fantasy is quite weird becasue it has the word Rape in it and yet women do not actually want to be raped as it is a terrible experience but most women would like to experience the act of their partner/stranger having sex with them against their will but they are allowing it to happen because they have consented to it. I think the main reason women or even men have these fantasies is because they like the idea of their partner wanting them so badly that they just take what they need from them.

    In any case there should be a safe word for acts like these such as:

    -Banana

    -Yellow

    -Jelly

    Custard

    Just some silly words which let your partner know when to stop.

  • I think it is really normal. Acting out submissive fantasies and being choked are my two biggest turn ons. Some guys might be a little weirded out by it at first, esp if they don't have very much experience, but if you bring it up in a relationship with someone you trust. I'm sure they will be openminded to try and will probably be turned on too!

  • I've got a similar fantasy. Rape fantasies are actually extremely common. Most women (and some men, as shown by Americanman) enjoy them. I think it's got to do with the domination factor. Being completely submissive and having the other person do whatever they want without being able to stop them.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It is not weird. Many girls fantasizing about it. When you are getting raped BY a GUY that you LIKE A LOT or LOVE it gives you a feeling that this guy is in FULL control of you and he can do what ever he wants and I mean literally what ever he wants by giving you a sensation of insecurity and helplessness while you enjoying it A LOT because you know that your guy enjoys it A LOT as well and you kind of connection more to each other through this brutal fantasy. I'm saying that because I did that with my Girlfriend well X and she told me what she felt and to be honest after that night we didn't do it again because it was tooo much for her and believe it or not but for me too BUT it made us very very close and we truly trusted and were loyal to each other after that night.

  • i had a hot teacher once that I wish raped me during detention, man she was smoking

    • LOL, best answer for sure :)

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  • I have fantasized about being raped by a hot woman or a pack of them although if you want it to happen it isn't really rape. Don't worry you're normal.

  • OK, this is probably going to surprise you, but yours is one of the most common - and least talked about - fantasies that women have. Is it normal? Yes. Would I go around telling everyone about it? No, because it's not a "politically correct" fantasy to discuss (that's why every woman always says her fantasy is to be with a lover on the beach -- it's safe and politically correct.).

    • Why is it that sex on the beach is so wanted? I mean I know for sure that when I'm at the beach sand is all up on me and to be naked, deffiently don't want sand in certain places! Lol.

  • I don't think its weird at all and like what eithyy said a lot of people have the similar fantasy. I do but I wouldn't call it rape.

  • pass by

    • Huh, what do you mean?

  • I was raped in a toilet once. Its not as good as you may imagine, LOLLLLLL.

    • How were you raped in a toilet?

    • I was about 6 years old, and there were a few 'suspicious characters', shall we say, hanging around the playground. Essentially, it all unfolded rather unfortunately. We were in huts at the time, 'cos the main building of the school was being closed down. And I asked if I could use the toilet. After I left, however, a notice went around - I learnt this later - that there were suspicious men hanging around, and that children shouldn't be let out untill they were removed fro the premises

    • But I was already out, y'know? And whack, rape. My memory gets kinda hazy from then in though, y'know, the way it does about traumatic events. So I don't know why they just let me go... But y'know.

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