"It's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean"?

I keep hearing "It's not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean". What are some techniques it is referring to? Which work best? ladies
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Size of the boat

    In most cases for most women size isn't an issue. Now that being said there are however a few extreme cases where size is an issue, either because he's too small or too big or she is too small or too big. The best way it can be said is size is relevant, you need a good fit to create enough friction during sex to make it pleasurable for both. Chances are if it's tight enough for you, you are a good size for her.

    Motion of the ocean

    A good rhythm is always an asset, finding that perfect position is essential. But that's not all that makes a good lover.

    Technique

    Each person has different things that work or don’t work for them, the key is to find those things and explore them. I find that the more I get to know my lover the better sex we have. It didn't start out amazing from the first time we had sex, but it has become fantastic. It's something about being in tuned to your partner. Listening or picking up on those cues she throws your way. Most women don't verbalize a lot they expect a man to be a mind reader to just instinctively know where to touch and how much pressure to apply and to be able to figure that out it takes time. Pay attention to how she moves and how her body responds to you and what you are doing. Listen to what she says, and ask questions like does that feel good, do you like it like this. Don’t question her to death or she will think you have NO clue lol it’s a fine balance.

  • it's true. depends on the girl, each girl will have different techniques that is best for them. for example, for me, it's on my stomach

    • like you lying on your stomach?

  • Part of that means making circular motions so that you put pressure on the G-spot

    • -2? :( Well I do declare, there's two more virgins in this house of pleasure in need of madamly schooling.

    • Now it is even.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I agree with what others have said. Communication is the key. However, I choose only to give my motion to a woman that is a lot smaller than an ocean.

    • Hilarious brother

  • I think that it is just a cop out if its the "motion of the ocean" the big boats can do the same but is easier to hit the g spot with a big boat

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  • LMAO, tht made my day !

    • How exaclty?

    • cuz I've never heard of it, too serious I didn't mean it offensively

    • oh, I think its quite a common phrase actually.

  • motion of the ocean for real!

  • what would you rather be on in an ocean? a tiny steam boat or a yacht?

    • I am the titanic. but I am curious what they mean by "techniques"

    • It's just lies to not destroy average and smaller guys confidence

    • after all there isn't enough big d***s to go around so they have to settle, and they don't want to settle with someone who doubts their abilities

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