It's your birthday, and your girlfriend is offering birthday sex...

[KGirl19]

What do you want her to do the most? Let's just say she's willing to do absolutely anything you ask, what would you want?

[Anonymous]

It is my birthday. I want her to put my in a comfortable chair and blindfold me. Put on some nice soft and sensual music.

Then give me a lap dance. After a few minutes of exploring her body with my heightened senses of touch, taste and smell I want her to start giving me head.

Then I want her to have sex with me, without a condom...and switch between vaginal and oral sex.

And then when I am about ready to orgasm, I want her to give me head until I orgasm in her mouth, which she swallows.

Then massage my back.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ME!

[taster]

I think your idea sounds delightful...only thing is...I already get everything I want & need...of course I have been married for almost 17 years...how long have you dated him? Are you aware of all of his fetishes/fantasies/fixations? That would be a perfect time to indulge him...if, like me, you are already doing everything..then maybe a little extra attention & coddling in bed?

[katiesmuff]

Something that he is getting on a regular basis doesn't sound like much of a special thing for a birthday gift

[Camilus]

To make me a sandwich

[Camilus]

I got more down arrows for asking for a sandwich than the man that said he wanted to stick his cack in your ass. That is absolutely hilarious if you think about it.

[KGirl19]

The question wasn't what do you want her to do in general... its what do you want in bed. And you get down voted because the "make me a sandwich after sex" idea is not what girls want... at least not me

[Olivia9]

I'd make you a sandwich esp if the other choice is anal.

[Camilus]

Who cares what she wants, it's MY birthday.

[Camilus]

I was just trolling BTW; not serious.

[Anonymous]

I would want her to give me an actual gift, and not pretend that sex is some kind of prize.

[KGirl19]

That's not the question though... Obviously I am giving my boyfriend a real gift but its always nice to treat him to a little pleasure of his choice instead of the usual routine

[jcmrq]

I have to agree with the guy. Sex should not be used a s a kind of prize or something.

[samhradh_leannan]

Sex shouldn't be used as currency or a bartering tool, you're right. But it's okay to offer your partner special attentions and favors on their birthday. There's nothing inherently wrong with "birthday sex", or with viewing sex that's focused on their desires as a treat for them. It depends on how you approach it.

[Opinion Owner]

@QA I doubt that you were, or are, going to give him a real gift. @samhradh You say that sex should not be used as a bartering tool, and then go on to use the word "favors" to describe sexual acts. Interesting.

[KGirl19]

Actually I do have a real gift for him. I bought him new shoes and I am taking him to a movie he has really wanted to go see and then take him to a mexican restaurant that he always talks about. You can stop being an a**hole now

[samhradh_leannan]

So its never okay to pay special attention to your partner during sex? That doesn't even make sense. I agree with you partly but you're being WAY too black and white about it. And it's completely out of line to make assumptions about whether or not the QA is going to give a "real" gift- you have absolutely nothing to go on, after all.

[Opinion Owner]

lol

[Anonymous]

Anal