It turns my guy on to have fully clothed sex... Any ideas why?

Could it be some kind of fetish? I have recently started dating a guy and we've never had naked sex! He likes to keep BOTH of our clothes on, even my shoes. I asked him why and he mumbled something about the naughtiness of clothes on. Weird. Most guys I would assume would love to see their girl naked during sex. He is not self conscious about his body, so it's not that. What do you think?
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  • I don't think it's terribly unusual want to try it that way (can't explain exactly), but if that's the ONLY way he likes it, then I would call it a fetish. I imagine there is a name for it as well. I tried to Google it but you can imagine what that brought back - everything except a serious discussion. I'm sure it's out there though, because I have seen references to clothed male , naked female (CMNF) as well as clothed female, naked male (CFNM). So there are variations too.

  • I have a fetish for girls who keep stockings and/or high heels/stilettos on during sex. Everything else should be on the floor. Each person has his/her own fetishes. If he has a fetish for sex while fully clothed, try it a few times to make him happy; Then, tell him what fetish(es) you have, and make it happen. A couple who are capable of communicating, understanding each other, and doing what makes the other happy will lead to a long-term, sexually-active, happy couple.

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  • Never heard of this one before, but if it turns him on why not?

    My husband likes to be completely nude, where acceptable and at home. Also, he'll be nude and likes me to wear naughty panties/bras and nighties if we are fooling around but when the time comes for sex we both are usually naked.

  • If it's all the time, I would say it's probably a fetish. But I had sex with my ex-boyfriend a couple times, with our clothes on. He said it turned him on because it was like, we didn't want to take the time to take our clothes off, because we really wanted to have sex.

  • Sounds like he has a fetish. If its something that is very arousing to him, then continue to do it :) Try to kink it up by wearing some very naughty outfits.

    • Weird, but he doesn't like sexy outfits- just normal clothes. He has no interest in seeing my bra or nickers...

    • hmmm...yes that is bizarre. But then again, how many other fetishes are?

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  • Because he does.

  • It could be the naughtiness of it. Like if you're wearing clothes it's like wherever else you go wearing clothes and having sex there, because you're dressed the same, like you could do it anywhere.

    • Or it could be reduced intimacy. Like the clothes are the barrier, so it's just pure sex.

  • only thing I like a woman to have on is her stilettos - the rest is coming off!

  • Lol my guy always keeps his boxers on during sex! its so annoying!

  • I too love it when my partner keeps some clothing on. Especially a top. The slow unbuttoning of her shirt or a quick pull popping the buttons in all directions is enough to make us both gasp in ecstasy.
    Keep some older clothe you no longer want and offer them to him in the name of passion.
    Have fun.

  • I can see why that would be a turn on, but not all the time

    it's just changing things up a bit and keeping it more exciting

  • Like dry humping or with your clothes on, but just down enough to where you can actually have intercourse?

    • Yes, clothes just down enough to have sex. This is why he likes me in skirts- its easy for me to keep my clothes on.

    • Ahh. ...interesting. It sounds OK I guess, but only like once in a great while or something. lol