Jacking off to p*rn isn't fun anymore?...

masturbating to p*rn is no longer pleasurable and if anything it makes me feel more depressed instead of happy, what else can I try?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Going to where you are, not where you "should be". I know the knee-jerk reaction is to tell you to "get a girlfriend", but it might be better not to do that for the purposes of sexual appetite. Better to seek a girlfriend and build a relationship with your libido safely slaked off until it has advanced into sexuality.

    There was a time when I did not believe I would again be in a satisfying relationship and I set about selecting p0rn to masturbate to that did not leave me feeling depressed and empty. It took a lot of trial and error and I eventually downloaded a playlist of good ones (Mozilla download helper) to play (free Media Player Classic Home Cinema plays downloaded FLV's. The best sites were xhamster and xvideos.

    I came upon ASIAN POV (point of view) oral/BJ and HJ. They are un-extreme plain vanilla, depicting what I now get regularly along with intercourse, which can also be done POV with more difficulty. Here's why this is better.

    You have "eye contact". Your fantasy can allow you to think she is looking into YOUR eyes.

    The girls often talk softly and smile in a nurturing, coaxing way. It does not matter that it is in Japanese or Chinese. You do not see much of the guy other than down his belly or from the side not including his face. The guys are not musclemen/p0rnstars with 8" c0cks. They tend to be small men with modest sized and even small c0cks. There is little p0rn grunting/moaning which always feels false and distracting when I hear it.

    And here's the "rub". The "happy ending" is visible. If it is HJ, you see ejaculation happen on camera. If it is a BJ, you quickly learn when ejaculation is occurring into a closed mouth by the girl's suddenly changed technique and they almost always spit the result into their hands to show it to you approvingly. If it us intercourse, POV watches the girl experiencing orgasm at the same time as the guy ejaculates followed by a "cream-pie" view. In each result, you can time your ejaculation to coincide with the "happy ending" in the video clips.

    Developing this routine worked well for me. I am in a satisfying relationship but I still do this from time to time sort of like smoking the occasional cigar.

  • There is no excuse for not having a real GF. The intenet is packed with advice and how-to on all aspects of relationships. I'm curently working on "cold approaches" and "chit-chattery". Smoothing up on some lovely lady is the most thrilling thing I've ever done.

    • I can't I don't have the looks and I don't like uglier girls

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well, on some p*rn websites like youporn (which is free, and I'm sure the live cams are too) there are live cams where you can talk to the girls and have them do stuff for you live. Also you can just try fantasizing in your mind about women you know. Other than that, I'm not sure what else except for stop for awhile then maybe try again. Maybe your getting to used to p*rn.

    • You know, these guys on here have a point. And to your reponse to zodiac988, so what if you don't like ugly girls? we're not saying you have to marry them. From what you say about your looks an how low of a self-esteem you seem to have, the combo will get you nothin! So if you want some real p****, your going to have to buck up and get an ugly girl. Maybe after you get laid a couple times you'll get a higher self-esteem and do something about your problem instead of sittin at home wacking off.

    • Im an average looking guy I don't think I'm guy

    • Then just get out there man! lol we're trying to help you out damnet, and your just sittin there like 'I can't get one, I tried' There is women out there that will at least sleep with you, you just have to close the spankwire window long enough to go meet them. If all else fails, go to bars real late where all that is left is the drunk barflies. You oughta get you some there.

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  • Bestiality.

    LOL! jk! well...why don't you have a girlfriend?

    • cant get one

    • why not?

    • girls aren't attracted to me

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  • get a girl...

    • cant, tried

  • get a real girl and enter a relationship. Or go for a one night stand with a girl. If not, look at some interactive sex sites like

    www.Cam4.com

    Where webcam girls are interactive to chatters.

    Hope this helps. Let me know.

    • a real girl is not the option but I'll check out those cams, thanks

  • gotta watch more p*rn, man. it's the only way. :D

    you definitely seem like you want more out of life. get out and meet people, bro. get that real good good. :)

    • I don't look like you

    • You don't need to look like me or anybody else for that. Don't let your mind hold you back from that.

    • thats easy for you to say

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  • Find something else that gets you turned on. I can't stand regular p*rno actress p*rn. The women disgust me. Try looking into voyeurism stuff or explore with other taboo things you wouldn't normally go for.