First of all: you are young. very. Having a sexual experience now so early in life would be against my advice.
BUT:
I was the same way. I lost mine with my guy and it did feel weird, I mean it was like I couldn't even look at him without feeling lost. I didn't know how I felt about him anymore. But when I thought about it, it was somewhat relieving when I talked to him about it, I asked if he felt weird and he said not for him. Because committing to having sex with your partner is a choice on both parts. We all have needs the choice that I made to do that with him was a choice that I shouldn't regret. You just have to be responsible in every sense. If you are regretting making the choice, or feel empty, think about that instant. Did you regret having it with him? Think about the feelings you had in that moment, and when he looks at you think about it. And if you don't smile or feel anything. Maybe you did make a wrong choice. I know when I look at my guy, and we both smile and I feel what I felt that night. I don't regret it. And I feel on top of the world because I have experienced something that makes life what it is: An adventure. (how this wasn't too corny.)
Im not that young I'm 17 almost 18...
Yeah I just had sex for the fist time last night and I'm 22. I don't regret doing it either but I do feel empty too. I think it's because I thought it was going to be differant then it was. Don't get me wrong I really enjoyed it. I do think it's normal to feel this way.
yeah I did, I think a little from shock, you've lost you're virginity in one night after being a virgin you're whole life. Don't worry it will pass, as long as you know it was with someone you love and know they respect you - you won't regret it.
I know this may not help. I myself am still a virgin and proud of it.
But from what I hear quite a lot of couples who get married regret not waiting until their wedding night. Just thought there maybe some connection here.
It is all to do with 'hype' in my opinion. Sex gets really hyped really early, and that hype goes above and beyond the realistic expectations to the point that anything other than touching the hand of whatever deity you choose will fall short of the expectations built around sex. It can happen to almost anything that gets on the hype train. Another alternative is that this empty feeling is another feeling of guilt, in which case I should make you aware that guilt and shame and things that are taught and instilled into young people. They are not inherent within humanity, though most religions like you to think they are, also most religions tend to be overly focused on peoples sexual exploits. Another alternative other than the two mentioned above is that it really wasn't that good as it realistically could have been. Loosing my virginity for the first time I found that it was actually a surprisingly imaginable experience and in fact I had had better vivid dreams.
I Felt nothing special. No big deal unless it is a big deal to you.
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I think that is somewhat a normal reaction
I think you probably weren't quite ready for it, but maybe if you explain to your guy that your not feeling real great about it he can help you get through it.
yeah its normal. I had that feeling wen I lost my virginity. at the age of 16. its a very low age to lose virginity to a indian girl
I don't find anything weird about it...;-)
i think a lot of girls feel that way the first time because they think its going to feel special but it hurts abit the first time
yeah its normal. I had that feeling wen I lost my virginity. at the age of 16. its a very low age to lose virginity to a Indian girl
i lost my virginity when I was 22, and didn't feel that way, was happy to give it to my guy.maybe you were just too young and not ready...
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