Kissing after getting a blow job...

I think its...Rude that a guy will avoid kissing me. I have seen my boyfriend masturbate and then start typing again! But if I give him head and swallow he will avoid kissing me and it frustrates me to no end! Why?
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  • Say you have some sample of standard straight males. If you get them horny enough, maybe 9% or so would accept a blow job from a guy, another 9% would strongly consider it but say no, and the vast majority may consider it, but not strongly (and say no).

    However, this depends entirely on them being horny. If they are not and a guy offers to give them head, the answer is 100% no, with no consideration whatsoever. Suddenly the idea of having a guy's head bobbing up an down on their c*ck is no longer a thing they can ignore as part of the ambiance. That excessive horniness is what allows them to do this.

    The point is, after a guy cums in your mouth, he is no longer horny, so anything sexual can still be considered part of the ambiance, but borderline gay things, like tasting his own semen, can not be ignored. That prospect would come across as downright repulsive. He'd probably let you continue to suck his c*ck after cuming in your mouth, because that's not gay, not even a little bit, but tasting his own sperm is - a little bit - gay.

    • This sounds suspiciously gay. Can't say I agree with any of that.

    • see what I mean? If he were horny it would make perfect sense!

    • That may be a mentality but that totally does not excuse a willful choice to show gratitude or show an equal amount of trust and passion. And I don't think something as simple as a kiss after she done something so incredibly intimate is asking too much. Besides, she said she swallowed, that is the VERY rare female who would do that. So it's not anywhere near being a snowball.

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  • I personally would be furious. I'd ask myself what the hell is wrong with him that he can't or won't kiss his girl on the mouth after she'd gone down on him? Has he tricked her because he has some kind of disease or what ?

    If that's not the case, then I would stop giving her oral altogether. It's pretty damn selfish if you ask me.

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  • It is in no way rude. If your willing to swallow, that's great but for him to get a taste of his own sperm? That leaving his comfort zone.

    My boyfriend kissed me after I gave head, and I was surprised and confused. Honestly, I have no problem with not being kissed. Try compromising and getting him to kiss you some place else than your lips.

  • I haven't swallowed but my boyfriend doesn't like me kissing him either. He says it's a "work in progress". I would really like to kiss him but I won't force it. However, I don't mind him kissing me when he's gone down on me. It depends on the taste.

  • Seriously though! I understand the reasonings and all but it's SUCH a killer to go and try to kiss your guy and have him give you his cheek.

  • Does he kiss you after eating you out? If so the next time he goes up to kiss you turn your head away. And if needed say "ewwww gross".

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  • Guys will naturally run away from their own semen. Its nasty I guess.

    Idk, but ask how mother nature program that into us.

    Try and kiss him after your down, force yourself if you have to. But be warned...he might just unconsciously punch you in the face, as a self defense mechanism.

  • I know! I fcking hate not being kissed after a bj. Like they're his own juices, I don't have a problem kissing a guy after he went down on me, or licking his fingers after.

  • Ur not alone here, I'm pretty sure most guys are like that. Although some of them on here seem OK with it. I've only ever had one guy who kissed me right after I swallowed for him.. the rest didn't really, but whateva :o)

  • I see how you may be upset because you swallowed and it's gone. But I wouldn't take it personally, guys aren't supposed to be tasting their own jizz.

  • My last girlfriend would chase it down with a glass of water right after she was done, then she would kiss me.

  • Girls kiss me after I go down on them for a half am hour or more so I man up.

  • Guys run away to taste their own semen, it's really awkward for the guys after they come out. As their is sudden decrease of sexual feeling after cuming.

  • You should be very mad. Girls that swallow are pretty uncommon, so he should at least give you a kiss, if not a couple. If you want him to change, stop swallowing or, better yet, stop giving him oral.

  • If a guy refused to kiss me after a blow job it would be the last he ever got.

  • That is rude but maybe he doesn't wana taste himself try spitting it out and he if he avoids it

    • what the hell would she have to spit for if she already swallowed?

    • Spitters are quitters.

    • lmao haha I like that quote

  • its nasty kissing someone with come in their mouth even if it is yours

  • What a jerk! He wants it in your mouth, but somehow his lips are too good for it? No more blowjobs for him!

  • Maybe he's tasted his come before and know that it tastes bad. I know I don't like the taste of my cum. Though I wouldn't let it stop me from kissing my girl assuming she had already swallowed.

  • I will kiss a girl on the forehead after a blowjob, but not in the mouth. If a guy's willing to taste or eat his own semen after a bj, then there's a really good chance that he's more than willing to eat some other guys semen in my book . Ew!

    • It's your semen dumb-ass. I guess sucking your ownd***would make you gay too, huh?

    • Shut up bitch.

    • Ha! That wasn't a "no." So much anger from a simple comment. "Methinks dost protest too much." >points and laughs at you< Haw! Haw! Closet gay-wad!

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  • Because he is a wuss.

  • You need to get over that. It's a gross thought to have my own sperm in my mouth.

    You sound a little too controlling to me. I mean it's great that you swallow and all, but come on...