Kissing during sex....

As you are banging the girl you are with and lets say, you also kiss her passionately even as you are in her. You reach for her mouth and kiss her with vigor and tenderness. The glisten of your skin touch together with hers, and even as you sweat raindrops of your fluids over her body, you still proceed to kiss into another passionate make out scene. What does it mean to you guys? I guess not all men like to kiss during sex..but for those men who do..I'm asking you..what does it mean to you? Is this just how it goes to get you going..or do you need a special connection with a special girl for this to happen. In other words..would this yield to love, and more than "just" a sexual act for you when this occurs?
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  • I like to kiss during sex; it intensifies everything and makes the connection deeper. I don't often have sex with girls I'm not emotionally connected with, but if I did and I was kissing her, I wouldn't be feeling love necessarily; just passion. But when it's with someone I already care about, then, yes, it helps to intensify my feelings for her.

    Guys generally don't "develop" feelings of love or emotional connections BECAUSE of sex; those have to exist before, and sex won't create them like they often do with women, If we have those feelings, then sex can intensify those feelings, but if we don't, no amount of sex and no sexual act will change that.

    • I figured, and obviously the guy has to care. But very good point:) Would you say, you'd care a lot for a girl if you've been chasing her for a year?

    • In the vast majority of cases, yes.

  • Its our way of showing love

    I don't usually have sex unless I love her do pretty much every time I had it I was kissing her vigerously and she replied back as well

    Now I know some find it odd but in my view its my way of showing gratification to her for she isn't just giving me her love but she is giving something priceless as well I e her time which I won't ever be able to repay so I just try to make up for it by kissing and showing her as much love as I can expressing it anyway I can may it be passion in the bed or outside

Most Helpful Girls

  • my boyfriend always tries to kiss me during sex, and I always pull away first. I love when he does that but I'm so preoccupied with the feeling of being penetrated that I can't focus on much else

  • My boyfriend always kisses me during sex, especially when he is about to cum. I love it.

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  • To me, sex and kissing go together like milk and cookies. Like sex, kissing is all about the connection between two people, and it's one of the best ways to share yourself with your partner.

    I wouldn't have sex with someone that I didn't feel passionate enough about to kiss during sex, but passion and true love are two different things. I think that love needs passion, but passion can sometimes exist without love.

    It sounds like you had a wonderful experience with this guy, which is awesome! Whether it yields to love or not will depend on a lot of things, though. I think you'll just have to wait and see what develops ... Good luck! :)

    • I only hope for the best, in my situation, is interesting..this guy has been after me for about a year now...I was a virgin..and this is recent. I am 21..I've been holding off by choice, and I've known this was bound to happen, because of his persistence. I guess you could say..I've grown very fond of him..and I would hope this to develop into something real for the both. Being it my first. I guess only time will tell...and thank you:)

  • Lol.. talk about over thinking. Well, its more so expression of how we feel for them or about them. This is either based on who they are as a person..or their appearance..or both.

    There are some chicks guys just want to bang the hell out of and do so. But he wouldn't want anything to do with her after, unless she is a booty call.

    If you want a 'special connection' then he'd spend time to love who you are,as well as appreciate your beauty as well,unless you're lacking in the latter in his eyes :p.

    hope this helped, I tried to keep it simple.

  • It is great if the fit is right. But she needs to be the right height so when I am "there" her lips are in kiss range. but like during a change up, yeah a few minutes of tongue wrestling is hot.

  • Its an intimate act of passion. It just depends on where your relationship is for how much it means emotionally in the long run. If you are hooking up after meeting in a bar that night, it's a sexual act. If you're in a committed relationship or it's the first time having sex with a girl you've been crazy about for awhile, it's most likely love or at least a sincere, genuine moment that you're going to remember.

    • Well I guess that makes sense..This is about a guy who's been after me for a year.. and yes...this is the first time we had sex... and similarly like I described it in my post..is how things occurred. Who knows what this will lead to...