Kissing when tipsy = slut?

[Anonymous]

So I had a fun night last night and was a little tipsy. When I'm intoxicated, I turn super friendly and start hugging people. Well I was at a friend's house and we were all drunk and somehow me, my friend Sammi, John, and Kyle all went into the bathroom and started bear hugging each other...Idk why. Well Sammi wanted to sit down and fell in the shower and Kyle was helping her but John turned off the lights and started kissing me, grabbing my butt, and wanted to go back to my place. We never went back because I was watching over Sammi making sure she was okay. Does letting him kiss me and grab my butt make me seem slutty? I wasn't trying to let him get in my pants but I did want to kiss him. I don't have a boyfriend and he doesn't have a girlfriend but I feel like I was being bad because he was trying to get me alone all night.

[Mesonfielde]

Nah, a slut is who kisses people when tipsy only to have fun and there is absolutely no attachment involved. In this case, it's normal, and apparently -he- was the initiator, so of course, you accepted it, but that absolutely removes the possibility of you being a slut. Sluts are those who walk up to guys and say "Hey big guy, wanna make out?" "Hell yea" and done. You don't do that.

Therefore, you don't need to worry, that's normal - emotions can get ahold of people when they're tipsy, and you're not really the one to blame for that. Also, you're not a slut if you make out with someone who you are emotionally attached to. And really - the other "slut" type is the one who is already in a committed relationship with monogamous views and exceptionality, but messes with many people at the same time simultaneously. Technically, sleeping with more people and being in a sexual relationship with many at the same time. However, just by kissing one guy... Nah!

[PredictablePen]

we all know what alcohol does to judgement. yes you wanted to kiss him, but I would be willing to bet that isn't how you had planned it to happen. I would think being all over someone all night would be a little slutty, so kissing doesn't necesarily mean anything

[megs00]

Well to be completly honest all of us at one point have had this happen while in college especially... And it does not by any means make you a slut! I've had this happen and many other girls have too... so don't feel bad. Going back to your place would've been bad tho

[BellaPrincess18]

Definitely NOT a slut...even so, sometimes a girl just needs to be held, there's nothing wrong about that...I love how when guys do those kinds of things they are just looked over but girls are always under the microscope!

[EvanNassau]

Hey,

Being slutty in the derogatory sense of the word involves sleeping around. You aren't doing that. You are a college-age girl having some fun kissing and things like that. That's "slutty" in the playful, innocent sense of the word. Go forth and have fun!

Best

- Evan

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[l-hedoniste]

Oh, come on! Kissing tipsy is fun! Did we invent Spin The Bottle by accident? No.

If you're a slut, than so am I, and everyone I know, and everyone *they* know.

[Gregs]

total slut...

[megs00]

Total jerk...

[Gregs]

Touche...