Ladies does your boyfriend play with your boobs rough?

Mine does at times. I can be quite sore after a night with him. They're big boobs so I guess he figures they can take the wear and tear but he pulls and pulls and squeezes on the nipples constantly. It hurts after awhile. Do any of you experience this?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • That's not uncommon. We guys aren't always as gentle as we need to be, but most of the time we're just trying to make our girl feel good in the moment. Sometimes we over-do it, and we need to be told when we go too far.

    My Girlfriend (and my last couple GFs) actually LIKE it rough, and sometimes complain that I'm too gentle, which I learned to be from past girlfriends who didn't like things so rough. My previous girlfriend told me that when she is at work and notices her nipples are sore, she's reminded of her time with me and it makes her happy and contented. My current girl kind of echoed that, but she also likes some pain as it heightens her orgasms.

    The point is: you need to communicate and tell him what you want and need, and let him know if he's going too far, or not far enough, or just right. Different girls want different things, and if we don't get feedback from you, we will probably assume that you like whatever we're doing, so if you want us to adjust, let us know! Most guys are happy to do whatever is going to give our girl the most pleasure.

  • he's an idiot for doing it, and you're an idiot for not telling him to stop

    • Totally agree.

Most Helpful Girls

  • YES. My boyfriend sometimes plays with my nipples way too rough and it really hurts. I have to tell him to stop and remind him that they're sensitive so be gentle, and after that he's more aware and gentle. He says he gets too excited and doesn't realize how rough he's being. Just tell your boyfriend that sometimes they are sore the day after so to be more gentle with them

  • No, at any time if my boyfriend is doing something that causes me pain I let him know, because he told me that I need to let him know, so I do. So I've never experienced it. I would let him know.

  • Yes, its happened. Opposite though, mine are small and very sensitive, all it takes is a light touch. Half of the time I worry that he's going to leave a bruise!

    • Why don't you tell him that?

    • I do. He just doesn't always remember.

    • So why do you just stop the activity, so he can't forget.

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  • Why don't you TELL him to stop, before the night is through. Why do you wait till thy are sore?

  • tell him to go easy on the "girls". and if he does not get the message give the"boys" a hard squeeze. that will get his attention.

    • lol @ give the boys a hard squeeze. Yes.

  • No my boyfriend squeezes them but it doesn't hurt. You need to tell him to stop.

    • Agreed.

  • Yeah I'm guilty of doing that too haha

    • If you know you do it, why don't you not do it?