Ladies, is giving/receiving oral sex more intimate to you than full sex?

I don't mean in terms of physical intimacy since putting your face into someone's genital area is pretty damn intimate. But more in terms of emotional intimacy or "causing" emotional attachment.
More intimate
Vote A
Not as intimate
Vote B
Same level
Vote C
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Most Helpful Girls

  • To me, intercourse is a lot more intimate emotionally.

    But then I'm an odd one, when he goes down on me, I can't help but feel embarrassed and I can't concentrate on the pleasure of it. So...That kind of stops it feeling intimate.

    Hmm...BJ, do feel intimate. I need to love the person, wish to pleasure him to give him one. But it doesn't cause emotional attachment for me.

    Intercourse on the other hand, does. I have never had a one night stand. I do not know how it would feel to have sex for the pure pleasure of it. I can imagine doing it though. If I felt the need ("the itch") I would probably have sex with someone I didn't love. But during sex and after, I certainly feel some sort of bonding.

    It's interesting. I never thought that maybe for guys oral sex is more intimate then sex. That they might need it to feel an emotional attachment.

    • Yeah I found the poll interesting - it's almost the exact opposite for girls and guys (more intimate for girls and less for guys).

    • Yes. It was definitely an interesting question. It does explain a few things though. Lol.

  • wow this is a good question...really made me think... and I still don't know..u can f*** dirty and not get emotional..you can give a sensual blow job . I personally think that its all pretty intimate. some people think that oral is not "real" sex but for me I feel a intimate connection when performing oral sex. but I get what you are asking and prop most people would feel full on sex.

  • i think sex is the cause of emotional attachement... I relised that recently in fact... but I can't choose which I enjoy more ... giving and recieving

Most Helpful Guy

  • To me, just simple vaginal penetration isn't enough to become intimate. It's what they call Straight Sex. I need to add more in order to feel more intimate with her. Personally, I have a difficult time having sex without eating her out as this is my favorite trick. I enjoy giving oral to woman than receiving from them, just how I am. To be in the center of a woman's universe looking up into her belly, chest and chin is just a sight to see. Being face first into the most mysterious and provocative locale of a woman turns me on at so many different levels.

    Do not misunderstand me. I can bang just about anyone be it orally or anally. It's only a matter of how much she wants to be intimate with me afterward. I honestly do get attached to women

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  • To me..having sex is the cause of emotional attachment..I don't feel any emotional attachment if I'm giving or receiving oral.