A male acquaintance recently started a conversation about “ugly” vaginas with my friends and me. He said that some vaginas resemble “kebabs” and that a lot of guys are really put off sex when they get a hot girl naked and find that her vagina isn’t as “neat” as they imagined it would be. It made me feel really self-conscious about my own, even though I never have been before.
Anyways, as I have never really seen many vaginas before, I decided to Google “ugly vaginas.” I was curious about what an ugly vagina actually is, and whether mine was one of them. Oh my god! I was shocked. What I thought was normal is actually “kebab-like”! There were images of “beautiful” and “ugly” vaginas. The Vagina Institute in particular compares the two. The “beautiful” ones have plump outer labia and you can’t see the inner labia poking out from them…but the ugly ones are just like mine, when you can see the inner lips slightly.
It has made me feel so self-conscious. I hate to think of my ex and future partners being turned off by my vagina, especially as I try to keep it neat by trimming and waxing! Now I feel like growing a bush to try and hide my lips!
nah don't be embarrassed. tht guy is a weirdo. all of them look great. no need to grow a bush, be proud of them
i rather you be wax and ugly vagina then a bush and neat one. its how much pleasure it gives is what counts.
Ladies, why are you so embarrased to show off your vagina?
I'm not embarrassed to show off mine I'm just not interested in showing it off other than to my vibrator.
It's understandable to me why some gals would be embarrassed as gals tend to be highly valued for beauty and highly criticized for perceived flaws. The vagina often isn't regarded as beautiful rather called a slimy hole and it's often highly criticized in both shape and size as it seems most vaginas are heavily edited to be designer perfect.
it seems most girls have no problem showing their breasts, but the vagina there hung up about, why?
Probably because breasts tend to be sexualized far more than the vagina. A gal can have A, B, C, or D coup breasts and be sexualized however it seems the vagina is often regarded as disgusting or abnormal if anything it seems guys are far more interested in having sex anally than vaginally.
i don't know wht guys you know. we like the look and most prefer vaginal to anal sex
I know an array of guys and it seems guys don't like "the look" they like "a look". Sort of how men don't like how women look they like how young attractive women look. If guys liked the look there probably wouldn't be such a strong preference for waxed vaginas nor comments about vaginas looking like roast beef or aliens.
not this guy. I have no preference, just being able to be in tht area is a treat
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Good question! Not like it is so rare or golden that others wouldn't know what it is and every female has one!
LOL nice answer :D
I don't pretend to understand it...
But the more I like the guy, the more shy I am about showing it the first time.
Im not! I love my vagina and I think its beautiful. Maybe they are insecure with how it looks or they think its ugly
I know right
Self conscious
I care more what her breasts look like than what her vag looks like.
Never experienced that. But objects are closer than they appear when she is sitting on my face.
Because we're taught to be prude unlike boys. Boys don't care about showing off anything.
Only part of my body I am embarrassed about is my belly. I have a bit of belly flab no matter how much I work out. I wouldn't care for a guy I am interested in to see my vagina or boobs, but I don't like being naked because of my gut. The only fat I have on my body is my gut, and it's embarrassing because I think I look three months pregnant or something. So I don't show off any of my goods at all. Maybe if I ever achieve a flat belly I will, but otherwise nope.
our whole life we're taught to keep our knees together, make sure no one catches a glimpse of our vagina
and then we might see a few in p*rn that are perfect, and ery different from ours
so naturally, when we are with a guy the first few times, we probably won't just spread our legs without any nervousness at all
we most likely will be shy about it
I laughed at the question title! But why should girls hastily show of their goodies
im not sayin hastily. I mean when your with a guy and your gonna be intimate
NO I NEVER WILL
I can only speak for myself but I get shy about showing mine because I hope my guy likes the way I look, every girl is different and every man has a different idea of the perfect vag. Some like innies some like outties, some like trimmed some like bare, so its just a fear of him not liking the way one of the mosy intimate parts of my body looks,
trust me we'll like it
I think its feels really shy to show that part to others.
Women are taught to hate their genitals, and think of them as disgusting. God only knows why.
Women are taught from a young age to be modest and that sex is bad, ugly, and makes her a whore. Can you blame them for being reluctant?
no but you don't have to be embarrassed, as guys we love it, no need to hide
If you ever have a daughter, I can almost promise you that you'll teach her that it's bad to have sex because you will want to protect her from the guys since you know how they think. Women are supposed to be the "pure" ones. Don't blame us for how we are raised from a baby. You can't really flip a switch on a 22 year old and have her be okay with it when we've been trained from infancy. You just have to deal with it, I'm afraid.
i think if I have a daughter, when she is old enough ill have a genuine talk with her. Let her know how guys think and what theyll try, but to be open with her and love her body for how it is
its really good question.why not ask your mama and sisy first :)
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