I have been proven time and time again, that some of the shy girls and the quiet ones are really sexually active. It doesn't matter what they are like in bed, it matters what follows:
- will she complain and moan about every little problem?
- is she going to cling to my hip?
- does she have goals?
- will she fight for her own thoughts? etc
If a girl showed that she was "mrs. popular" combined with "bitch" or "jerk" I wouldn't pursue her. Not because of fear, but because I don't want to live my life in hell- even if it is just a test to weed out a few of the guys she is approached by. I find it very annoying when a women puts up a front and acts like her sh*t doesn't stink. Usually I try to avoid them and not acknowledge their snooty behavior.
With a woman being sexually open, I like a freak- but I also like to be in control. So having someone beautiful doesn't really matter in the mix. It is mainly like I said above, if we are dating afterwards I would expect her to have some morals and live by them.
My OPINION on the perfect blend is how it follows:
- Someone that puts in efforts in her looks, as I put in effort on mine.
- Someone that can fend for herself, but needs me around
- Someone that knows what they like and aren't afraid to say just that.
- Someone that stays away from the negatives.
- Someone that has goals and depth.
I have dated a long list of people, only a few of them have matched to my "requirements", if you will, to finding my "dream woman". This is just a perception of what I'm looking for which I think is fairly reasonable. I'm not asking for people to be rockin' out on the bow-flex, nor eating cellary sticks, or even to go to work. I want a real relationship ^_^
As far as the sex part, it would be beneficial to have someone that always speaks positively about what they like. It is an instinctual habbit as kids- we developed a defense mechanism to hearing negatives. SO! If a woman were to say something like "i don't like you to do that", as human beings, men will naturally avoid that topic again. So while it wasn't pleasureable the first time, you may want it in the future and he will have thoughts of insecurity. These thoughts and feelings are similar to when you would be in trouble with yours parents as a youth.
I hope this explains things a little better,
Best regards,
ArtistBBoy
There is truth to the idea. Maybe a mundane ordinary job during the day but open to most things in the bedroom, i.e. not very prudish. I've been very fortunate; most of the girls I've dated were smart, normal people and some were as dirty as me in the bedroom ;-)
All I'm saying is, it's hard to find, but yeah they do exist ;) hehe! As your only giving yourself to one (or maybe very few men), why not try to make it the best possible ;)?
Lady in the Streets, Freak in the Sheets?
Simple: Classy, Smart girl, have not been around the block. But, knows when to be a freak, which is in private with her man :)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'll need at least some hint that there's something to work with. If all I hear is "Sex? Eww. That's nasty," I'm moving on.
be yourself...
Don't know that there's any real truth to this, it varies from person to person really but sex is far from the most important part of a relationship, I'd just like to meet a girl who shares some of my interests, you know someone I can talk to, someone who makes my day brighter just by being there!
It's the saying that describes an ideal woman for SOME MEN it does not mean every woman is that way
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