Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets?

[kiss_me_Kate]

Alright, what the hell is going on. I'm a very conservative person when it comes to intimacy and don't believe it's casual, likewise my experiences are quality and never quantity. I only like to reveal my true freak behind closed doors and in a loving relationship. The problem is, the guy is always thrown off. I am by all means the "good" girl. But after I get comfortable enough to explore, they think I was lying about being "good". I'm really frustrated, and terribly hurt. Guys, what the hell? Girls, has this ever happened to you? :(

[Anonymous]

My wife is Asian born and did not have s3x for 20 years before I met her (and I believe it). She had been in an engaged relationship with was ended very unhappily and she never dated again until I found her on the internet in a pen pal site. When we got together she was the fantasy girl of almost having no clue what to do but had cheerful eagerness. The speed to which she took to sex, particularly oral sex, was almost startling. Now she reacts with frantic abandon when she receives oral sex. Could make you wonder if she had been around more than I thought but in the end, I don't care. Its what she is and does now which is so good.

[kiss_me_Kate]

Ok your situation is questionable. But she love you long time, so good. Some people are naturaly good dancers, or know how to give a great massage. Maybe it's a level of physical empathy that allows her and myself to be so good. Sex is a talent.

[ThoroughFred]

Honestly I respect that. You sound awesome and ideal.

Unless... your into scat or some freaky ass gross sh*t like that. then its not so ideal.

I think we need some details...

[kiss_me_Kate]

i updated details. Haha.

[kiss_me_Kate]

and thanks :)

[ThoroughFred]

I like to play rough. Grabbing a your hair, squeezing your t*ts, thrusting hard and deep occasioanlly to ring the bell extra hard. The occasional throat squeeze and ass slap. Hell, even calling you a dirty slut, nasty girl, or my bitch. All sounds great to me. And when its over I kiss you on the forhead and snuggle up with an ear to ear grin. What's the problem dudes?

[kiss_me_Kate]

besides the being called names & choking...i don't know what the problem is.

[ThoroughFred]

Sounds like you managed to find a prude dude. Find a fellow closet freakazoid to get nasty and happy with.

[raabzbaby89]

It never happened to me, but, when you have to explain it next, try telling the guy what you just said in your question: I only like to reveal my true freak behind closed doors and in a loving relationship.

If he has trouble understanding that, there's not much hope for him, now is there?

[kiss_me_Kate]

That's like dangling meat in front of a hungry lion. I've tried this. They end up chasing me just for sex and I get repulsed.

[l-hedoniste]

I'm a very unconservative person; I'm a freak everywhere, as long as I don't scare children and old people. Bonus, since I don't lead a double life, I don't deceive anyone, and nobody's ever thrown off.

Integrity--a useful thing if you can swing it.

[jimmydean72]

Unconservative? LOL

[kiss_me_Kate]

I'm not living a double life. I am infact extreamly conservative, I really don't like random people touching me, even hugging me. Sex is also very emotional for me. But after I get comfortable with someone, it begins to get interesting. I don't lie about it, nor do I have any skeletons in my closet.

[Belgie]

Don't show them right away that you're a freak in the sheets.

Let the guy think he has corrupted you. He'll feel better about it. It does his ego good.

[kiss_me_Kate]

What if he's too boring? Usualy the problem is they're too scared or too emotionaly lovely dovey involved with me at that point. His feelings of love usualy mean no kinky sex. I guess you can't treat the person you love like a whore.

[Belgie]

Wow. If he's too boring, then it's a different problem. You're possibly attracting the wrong sort of guy for you, if you're just showing your conservative demeanour to the world.

[kiss_me_Kate]

i like kind, genuine, funny and driven guys. I'am also very emotional and need to have that connection. The problem is he wants to be boring. We can't just "make love" all the time. I want to experience many emotions with them :)

[layla223]

lol this is true about his ego! except I didn't pretend he actually did corrupt me lmao

[slipslender]

lol +1

[dudeman]

uhhh well if you were a virgin when you met me its all good but if not I'm just going to think I wonder haw many times and men she has done this with.

[TsubasaCorrupted]

It may just catch them off guard going from angel to kink. But I would think that is a pleasant surprise?