Leaked on my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I was at my boyfriends brothers house watching a movie I was sitting on his lap because there are only 2 seats in the living room my boyfriend on 1 his brother on the other. So after the movie finished I got up and realized id got my period my butt was covered in blood and my boyfriends jeans were as well. His brother was just like laughing his head off but my boyfriend didn't say anything so I just put my jacket round my waste and ran home. As soon as I get home my mobile rings and its my boyfriend I didn't pick up because I was 2 embarrassed this was yesterday and I still don't know what to do. PLEASE HELP I'M SO EMBARRASSED

[CristinaBacon7]

This is so similar to the time I queefed with a new boyfriend.. it was not even like it just got over with the one time..it kept happening that night and my first impulse was to tell him which hole it was coming out of.. It was terribly humiliating and I thought he'd never ever want to see me again. But you know what, it didn't bother him in the slightest...he was still just as turned on and wanted me after that just as bad.. I'm telling you, us girls are traumatized, understandably paranoid victims of a cosmopolitan culture.. You're feeling so embarrassed because you have a certain picture of yourself that you to want to project to your boyfriend. But he's just not that complicated, and from what you're saying about him, he sounds pretty mature. Unlike his brother, might I add... What happened to you was perfectly natural. Please don't act like it bothers you so much. It only goes to show that you're the one that's being immature and childish. Just meet ur boyfriend, laugh it off with him for sometime and go on to talking about other things. He'll admire you a lot more for handling it so well. Believe me. Hope this relieves your embarrassment.

[lizzy17]

Well this is a bad situation but you can turn it around. Just ask yourself how comfortable you are around him and the best way to resolve this is to just discuss it. The situation could of been different if his brother wasn't in the room because this is much more embarrassing, and you could tell your boyfriend that I got so embarrassed because your brother was there. Its is very understandable, and your boyfriend was probably ringing because he didn't want you to be embarrassed and wanted to talk about it.

[bobosbrosgirl]

dude, I'm sorry! That sucks so bad! However, as much as that sucks, you'll have to "face the music" sometime. You have to decide whether you'd rather discuss it over the phone or in person and then move on that way. He should understand that you can't control those kinds of things. Good luck, I'm sure things will go fine :)

[Cartiphilus]

If he was going to say anything negative about it, he would have done it at that moment. You don't mention any special look on his face. He was probably calling because he cares about you and to see if you were alright. This is far too personal to talk about over the phone. You're going to have to face him and discuss what happened. Apologize saying that girls don't normally feel it happening when they begin their period. Again, I don't think he's going to berate you. What ever you do don't wait too much longer to do it.

[tigerguy]

your boyfriend was probably going to say it was ok that he understands, seeing the blood probably just suprised him and prob didn't know how to react, maybe he has a phobia about blood like when people get blood taken out of them when they go docters, he prob felt dizzy and froze.

dont worry, just talk to him, he will understand