Girls, length or girth? What do you prefer? What is more important?

[Anonymous]

I know size matters to quite a few women and was wondering what you all typically prefer. If you vote please comment.

[Anonymous]

I prefer 6.5 length and 4.5 girth circumference. But I am ready to make adjustments if I like the guy.

[Asker]

so if you like him and he was like 5x5.5 would you be ok with it? 4.5 is pretty thin isn't it?

[Opinion Owner]

5 x 5.5 is okay if I like him.

[Asker]

So you prefer long and skinny? I thought most liked short and thick?

[Opinion Owner]

If a guy is good , I prefer what he has.

[Asker]

What do you consider good?

[Opinion Owner]

What I said in my first sentence.

[Asker]

i meant when you said this "If a guy is good , I prefer what he has" what did you mean by good here.

[Opinion Owner]

Good person. I am not referring to dick size.

[Asker]

That's what I was wondering.

[Listal34]

Can i have the choice of i dont really care about that

[Asker]

yeah buy that doesn't answer my question lol. you have no preference

[Listal34]

A cock is a cock. I can like them all

[Asker]

you must have a min/max?

[Listal34]

Big enough to feel

[Asker]

what is that too you

[Listal34]

10 inches long

[Asker]

yeah ok

[Listal34]

I like porn star sized cock

[Listal34]

Better yet some BBC

[Asker]

well enjoy your 1% of all men lol

[Asker]

you are petite so can you take lots of length?

[Listal34]

sure

[Asker]

well im not that long and would not want to be. fyi most pornstars are 6-8 and maybe 1 or 2 are 10". Im not that long but i would not want to be even 7 long.

[CanadianGirlx23]

More important is how big is income is

[Asker]

lol what is your minimum on that?

[CanadianGirlx23]

I was joking. Haha

[Asker]

Well you are not wrong. Such relationships exist. Haha

[CanadianGirlx23]

Really.. yes I want an established man to take care of me financially haha

[Asker]

and i want a women that is financially independent established as well haha

[CanadianGirlx23]

I'm the nurturing type that will cook and clean for when my hubby gets home from work.

[Asker]

I am the loyal and caring type that will always make sure my wife has a smile on her face.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Aww that's so sweet. Are you married?

[Asker]

not yet. but i hope to be a one and done type of person so i have to make sure she is the right one for that too.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Are you caucasian and how old are you

[Asker]

Yes and 22. So I have time to find the right one.

[CanadianGirlx23]

That's good

[CanadianGirlx23]

You sound like a great catch

[Asker]

Thank you. So do you

[CanadianGirlx23]

You sound cute af

[Asker]

lol what do you mean?

[CanadianGirlx23]

I wanna you know with you

[Asker]

Sorry?

[CanadianGirlx23]

I want to give you a kiss on your cheek

[Asker]

honestly that is what some girls say too. they always want the nice guy but never seem to end up with them buy you seem very special compared to most.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Thank you. It's hard finding a genuine nice guy that doesn't turn out to be a jerk. I'd love to date you

[Asker]

same to you. it is refreshing to talk to someone that is actually interested in a real relationship. i would like to date you too

[Asker]

are you Caucasian?

[CanadianGirlx23]

No, I am not. I'm Asian. Is that a dealbreaker

[Asker]

lol no. race has no effect on if 2 people that should be together.

[CanadianGirlx23]

That's true. Some men dont like Asians hence why I asked

[Asker]

too bad for them.

[CanadianGirlx23]

What's your eye colour

[Asker]

chocolate brown haha. you?

[CanadianGirlx23]

I have dark brown eyes too. Is your hair brown? What's your ethnicity

[Asker]

yeah its brown. i am caucasian (basically a bunch of European stuff and partly native american). what about you?

[CanadianGirlx23]

Very nice. I'm Chinese

[Asker]

but you live in Canada?

[CanadianGirlx23]

Born and raised

[Asker]

I should have known from your accent lol. Which providence?

[Asker]

anyone ever told you that you are kinda perfect?

[CanadianGirlx23]

How am I perfect? No they have not. I'm from western part of Canada

[Asker]

Most women today seem to have a much different view on relationships. People our age seem to focus on the physical aspects of people in relationships even though that is not what keeps people together for a long time. You seem to get that which is extremely rare so in my mind perfect.

[Asker]

trust me it is a compliment.

[Asker]

i meant which part of Canada?

[CanadianGirlx23]

Yes exactly. I want to give my significant other lots of love and affection.

[CanadianGirlx23]

I don't disclose where I live

[Asker]

Exactly. Today most people stay together for maybe 5 years if we are being honest and I have seen older people that have been together for 30-40 years and I wonder why we can't do that anymore. I feel like staying with someone for more than 5-10 is an accomplishment now instead of a typical marriage and it saddens me. Love should last longer than a few years.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Yes. To be frank, I don't know how long my relationship will last with my boyfriend. Seems like every guy wants something different all the time. They don't want to stay committed for very long.

[CanadianGirlx23]

It saddens me too. I know some couples who are 22 and married. I hope their marriage is growing strong

[Asker]

Most guys think with what is down below lol. they do not seem to realize that sex can only keep a relationship going for so long. I have a friend who is 30 and he sees women for sex and it messes with me. There is so much more than sex in a good relationship and he does not see that. After 40 years of marriage sex no longer matters and the bond you have is more important from what other have told me.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Yes I agree with you 100%. Sex isn't rhe main factor for keeping a relationship

[CanadianGirlx23]

I don't want a relationship that is all about sex.

[Asker]

Unfortunately it seems that most people our age do not get that. It is all about what we look like and not about if we can last together. News flash, we all get old haha.

[Asker]

what part of Canada are you in?

[CanadianGirlx23]

Mhm we do. My boyfriend claims he's an old soul. He treats me better than most guys

[CanadianGirlx23]

Are you from Canada too?

[Asker]

I know a lot of guys that say that but in the end they do not. Honestly I feel like I am the only one sometimes. I hope that he means it cause the worst is when you think he means it and all of a sudden he doesn't. It is a shame that there are not more like you and that you are taken.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Haha long relationship and I'm still a virgin at 23. Plenty of women who have the same mindset as me. You gotta keep looking. You sound like a brilliant man for your age

[Asker]

nothing wrong with that, i am too, like I said I am waiting for the right one no matter how long it takes. Long relationships are difficult so I hope it works out, the main thing is to stay connected and involved I think. honestly you are the first in a while that have the same mindset. Thank you. honestly I wish more men thought as I did. Not sure where we went wrong haha.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Good for you!!! He's moving where I live. You sound like a sweet guy. I wanna give you a kiss

[Asker]

That is good. Hopefully that helps with your relationship. Thank you. Same to you. Honesty you give me hope. It has been a while since i have heard someone think the "right" way about relationships. It is too bad we are not closer but if your guy starts to waver send him to me and I will tell him what to do haha. But really, you are so rare and I would like to know how things go for you in the future.

[CanadianGirlx23]

I wish I can find a man with your qualities and intellect

[CanadianGirlx23]

Can we keep in touch?

[CanadianGirlx23]

I'd like to know how things are going for you

[Asker]

I have to admit that it is too bad you are not close. If every women was like you the world would be happier to be honest.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Thank you. Not every guy is going to agree with what you say. I'm flattered and I appreciate the kind thought

[Asker]

I am between girlfriend right now. I find that it is hard to find someone that thinks like you do. Most are to concerned with "right now" instead of where we could be in the future.

[Asker]

It is honestly how I feel. It may be how I was raised but I honestly get discouraged sometimes because a lot of women seem to forget that in 20+ years it will not matter what I look like but how we feel about the person.

[CanadianGirlx23]

That's true. Mhm

[Asker]

Your are one of those unbelievably beautiful women aren't you.

[CanadianGirlx23]

How do you know if I am beautiful? I am not. I don't care much about looks. Wbu

[Asker]

First of all beauty is not always exterior, but there is a chance that a women thinks like you do and is remarkably beautiful and I think that you are one of such women. I might care for the first 5 minutes to be honest but if I talk you a women and there is that feeling, the one where you are like "wait, does she really think like me, am I dreaming or is she she really in for the long run, could this be the one. At that point I could care less what she looks like.

[Asker]

Trust me, you are beautiful, and if someone says other wise then the loss is on them.

[CanadianGirlx23]

I am cute to some guys and ugly to others. Men are very shallow. I'm happy that my boyfriend cares about me and loves me. He trusts me to give him a blowjob

[CanadianGirlx23]

You're an incredible man

[Asker]

Ugly is a strong word, I would argue that no women is ugly. I agree that some men do not get it like the friend I mentioned and it makes me sick, sex is important but hardly what keeps a relationship going. I hope he does love you cause he may not realize what he has. Is he caucasian? I would trust you too and I expect that you are quite adept at caring for your man sexually based on what you have told me, it is important that sex has a important place in a relationship and he is a lucky man.

[Asker]

Thank you. You do not know how much that means coming from someone like you.

[Asker]

I think that you are equally incredible.

[CanadianGirlx23]

I'm scared to have sex. He's a nice guy to me. He is caucasian. I wish I had you haha. I like you

[Asker]

Why are you scared? I wish I had you to honestly, I like you too. Your truly are 1 in a million. But please tell me why are you scared?

[CanadianGirlx23]

I don't want sex to be painful for me. I wish you were my boyfriend. Are you a virgin too

[Asker]

Yes but I know what to do as far as how to make it painless. Honestly my thickness may be a bit much for you based on what some Chinese friends have told me about my size but, if you and I were to be together you would never forget it, if you were in pain then we would stop until you were ready, I hate guys who think that they can just go at it without thinking about the girl. You are not all the same, and therefore you must be cared for accordingly.

[CanadianGirlx23]

How big are you? You showed your dick to who?

[CanadianGirlx23]

You'd have sex with me?

[Asker]

Average length I think (5-6) but I am about 5.3-5.8 in girth which I have been told can be a lot to some. My last girlfriend and I had sex and it was good but she seemed to lack a committed state of mind so I broke it off. Why do you ask?

[CanadianGirlx23]

How do I know what thickness and size of dick is perfect for me? Did it hurt her

[Asker]

Right at the start but only for a little bit then it was amazing for her but I have heard that some Asian women can be quite a bit smaller but I would make sure you were fine. Do you know what your boyfriend is size wise? Of course I would I would like to know you more first but if things were working between us then yes is would (I think we would be fine). Most men would be lucky to have someone like you.

[CanadianGirlx23]

I don't know exactly. Around 5-6 inches. I'm sorry you guys broke up. Girls would be all over you because I am haha. I wish we were friends

[CanadianGirlx23]

Women would be lucky to have someone like you

[Asker]

Girth is more of the issue as far as size goes I believe, most guys are between 5-6 long but from what I have heard most guys are thinner but that would never affect you cause you would never be in discomfort with me. It was mutual. I wish we were too. I hope to be with someone like you someday.

[Asker]

Men should hope to have someone like you and those who do not are unfortunate.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Why can't I find a guy around my age that is like you!!! Ugh so hard these days finding a perfect man like yourself.

[Asker]

Same about a women like you!! It seems unfair. If more were like you the world would be better.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Can you be in my boyfriend's soul

[Asker]

Wish i could do more. Just like life to be so cruel haha. If you were mine I would never let you go, someone like you comes along once in a lifetime.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Can I be yours lol

[Asker]

I wish so much! Lol. The life we could have. You truly are remarkable!

[CanadianGirlx23]

Thank you. So are you. I wanna keep talking to you !!!

[Asker]

Same here! I want to talk forever!

[CanadianGirlx23]

Ugh I know this is weird. I really like you and I have no idea who you are. I love your mind

[Asker]

Why can't all be like you.

[Asker]

I feel the same. It feels like it shoukd be weird but for some reason it isn't. Your way of thinking gives me peace of mind that I and not the only one.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Why can't men be like you

[Asker]

Why can't women be like you? It seems cruel that we aren't closer given how we think. Maybe we are supposed to be an example how how to be haha.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Ugh I'm so sad that I cannot have you. I want a man like you in my life

[Asker]

It may sound weird but you inspire me and give me how.

[Asker]

I am said I cannot have you either. Perfection is rarely found.

[CanadianGirlx23]

I want to be with you

[Asker]

I want to be with you too. No one has ever felt what I felt like you do.

[CanadianGirlx23]

It sucks that I dont know you. I never felt this way either

[Asker]

Yes it does. Me either. It might should weird but I wish we could just sit somewhere and talk forever.

[CanadianGirlx23]

That's exactly how I feel lol we could talk all night for hours haha and wouldn't be bored

[Asker]

Exactly. I want to know what you think about everything. I have never felt that with anyone. This is crazy haha.

[CanadianGirlx23]

What is on your mind? I have never talked this long with a guy before haha

[Asker]

Same here. There is so much. You pick. When I go to sleep I will respond when I wake up. I really am astounded by you!

[CanadianGirlx23]

You're going to bed now? I want you to choose the topic!

[Asker]

Not if you want to talk. Let's go simple, any hobbies?

[Asker]

I have always been more of a listener rather than a talked to be honest.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Cooking, work out, dance, spin, walks/hike. You? is there a private place we can talk

[Asker]

I like to cook and workout too. I'd like to hike more as well. Not sure on here.

[CanadianGirlx23]

Do you use anything? Can I hike and cook with you?

[Asker]

What do you mean buy anything?

[CanadianGirlx23]

Kik?

[Asker]

By lol

[Asker]

Snapchat?

[CanadianGirlx23]

Bye? Oh okay

[CanadianGirlx23]

I dont have that anymore

[Asker]

Not bye lol

[Asker]

I have a Kik but I haven't used it in a white

[Asker]

Not quite sure on how to really use it

[CanadianGirlx23]

I don't use it much either. I don't know of any other apps to talk on. I'm afraid of losing you.

[Asker]

Same here. Try to add me on Kik.

[CanadianGirlx23]

What is your name there

[Asker]

If you want too.

[Asker]

Member2103 lol. Top secret haha

[CanadianGirlx23]

What is your name

[cathy23]

If you really like the guy you try to make things work, no matter what size he his.

[Anonymous]

if your dick is below 6 dont come talk to me.

[Asker]

lol really? so you wouldn't talk to like 65% of men?

[Opinion Owner]

nope

[Asker]

Why that length?

[Opinion Owner]

its better

[Asker]

But girth provides more pleasure than length.