Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
1) Does penis length, width and shape matter?
YES:
A) Crooked: A penis may be crooked and angled upwards which naturally rubs a girls g-spot the right way.
B) Shorty: A penis may be shorter (1-3 inches), but make up for that in width (3-5inch+). (It does feel better to be stretched vs stabbed with a pencil dick.
C) Mushroom Head: If a guy has a 2 inch dick... A thick penis head REALLY makes up for the lack in length. A full mushroom penis head adds yummy rubbing sensations and an interesting sense of fullness that teases.
D) Pencil Dick: A guy can have a pencil dick (whenever your length is proportionately too long for your girth) and the blow jobs or intercourse won't be easy. Some girls hurt too much when the penis stabs the back wall of her vagina. The girl might not even be able to perform a blowie without it turning into a full on deep throatie, which isn't easy at all for anyone but pros.
E) Big can be scary and hurt: Though a vagina can expand up to 200 percent when aroused (think of the size of a baby), most women are intimidated by dick sizes that are more than 5 inches.
F) Big dick attracts big vagina: If you want a beautiful size queen and her wide set vagina to love your dick, you will indeed need a king kong dong (8in+).
G) Shitty Man, but Sexy Dick: You could have the shittiest personality, but your nice dick or sex chemistry could keep her coming back for more. Uncontrollably.
H) Average Vagina and Dick Size: In the U.S., the average penis size is 5 in. long / 4 inches wide and the average vagina length is 3-4 inches while her width is an average of a little over an inch.
NO:
A) No Chemistry: A guy could have your average 5 incher dick and the girl could have her average 3-4 incher vagina, but there could easily be no sexual chemistry and it would feel like something was missing. Nothing beats sexual chemistry.
B) Zero Personality: might scare a girl away from having sex if she is the serious-bring-her-to-meet-parents type.
C) Lots of Money: Lets be honest, if you have lots of money you won't have to worry about your size or lack of ability to get it up.
D) Small but mighty. His dick may be small for you, but he could have a sexy voice that just brain washes a gal in the perfect way when he tells her all the things that he wants to do with or to her. He may compensate in other ways by being very very attentive and worshiping in all forms. It will make a girl melt for him, just as much.
E) Men are not expected to be the sex stud responsible for making a woman orgasm. Women who don't explore their own bodies, won't ever figure out what makes them orgasm. A man can't be expected to know a woman's body more than the woman herself. A woman is capable of fucking her mans dick to hit all her right angles. A woman can take control in bed for her sex stud to let him lay back and enjoy the moment without feeling rushed or pressured to perform.
F) Once interest is gone, there just isn't anymore sex and your dick just doesn't matter. If that's what is going on for you, there will be someone else in the world who needs the same thing that you need. Some people just can't have sex when not emotionally invested anymore.
G) Asexual = no sex. That person you like may be asexual and the only way to impress them is to have them fall in love with your mind. BUT GUESS WHAT, still no sex.
H) Stinky dick = no sex. If your dick stank or your asshole dirty... What makes you think someone will want to play?
I) If you are too hot, most people might just assume you are a slut boy. It's true, specifically with girls... They will assume that you get around way too easily with a face like that. NOT ALWAYS TRUE. But I was informed by a coworker who was a male model and actor (and incredibly hot) that he only got laid three times and he was 26. One of those times was with 2 women in New York, he claims. I don't know.
J) If you dont have the face, but you have the body. You will most likely get laid no matter what your dick size is.
2) Is it normal to lose an erection during sex?
A) 100% yes. No you don't need viagra.
B) Men are in a lot of emotional turmoil and pain. Us women have our moody cramps once a month and men have their erectile dysfunction. It happens.
C) His dick needs a break. You could be fucking like rabbits for 2 weeks straight and the guy can have a hard time keeping it up for a while, but take a break and it will be back to normal. Dicks can get exhausted too.
D) He needs to feel emotionally connected. Men need to feel like they are free to express emotion and love to share an intimate moment with someone. He may still be sexually attracted to a woman's body, but missing something really important such as love and emotional intimacy can kill the vibe AND he could still be horny... But now horny and frustrated. (it happens to women, they just don't get wet. It's less noticeable.)
E) Masturbation feels safer. Some men avoid sex in fear of losing an erection or in fear of getting a girl pregnant, etc. This can kill any boner while trying to have sex. Masturbation is always a guaranteed cum-session and guarantees 0 judgement.
F) Porn has raised expectations too high. I mean it happens and the only thing that will save your sex life is if you find someone that you have sexual chemistry with. Even if the girl looks like a porn star it will never be the same and this can kill your boner too.
G) Too focused on his partners pleasure, he forgot about himself. Once he is so focused on pleasing his partner, he can forget about his own pleasure and then it just goes bad from there IF the partner and the guy don't understand or communicate why. The partner might think, "oh, he's not sexually into me" and he will just feel even more worst with a bad reaction from his partner. and bye bye all sex vibes.
Inspired by: https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/a52050-let-s-talk-about-your-penis-how-big-it-is
What Girls & Guys Said
6 49Ridiculous. You don't know anything about dicks. LOL
Almost everything you claim is wrong, pretty much all of it. Oh well. What are ya, 15? :)
I definitely am not a doctor, but I'm speaking from my personal experience. Which is all anyone can really do. I thought that if I shared my personal experience, it might help comfort someone. I can't please everyone though and I'm okay with that. I hope you have a lovely day, sir! <3
Fantastic take. Really.
Dang, thank you so much! <3
YES! All this time I thought the average size was a foot, and I felt like a came up short.
So you're saying most women would expect 5 inches?
Even if you got the foot you are not a pro boxer and don't do bull riding for a hobby. You gotta fit around here.
@OvershareGamer Who knows? ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!
See, I pro boxed a bull and won so they got nothing on me.
@OvershareGamer Shit dude you must be getting that snatch
I mean, 5 inches is average in America. In some countries the average is larger and in some countries the average is smaller. I think girls think they want 5 inches because of the ignorance of innocent girls and their lack of knowledge in anatomy.
This is a good take and i don't think it is objectifying... it is more to the point, and on topic based on the title. It is nice to get a female perspective on the things that can go wrong in bed for men, and your thought process. One thing I would like to add to the conversation is that a high percentage of military and athletes get performance anxiety during sex for some reason at one stage or another with their partner. Viagra can help by allowing you to gain the awesome performance you want to give, then the anxiety goes away because you accomplished it. So you can stop taking the pills and perform well remembering how the last time went. Other times, ED happens because your girl either sucks in bed or gets complacent. My ex used to start bringing up bills and finances during foreplay! Wtf is that?
Thank you so much for adding this, every comment helps to comfort a lot of people. This is good representation for your friends and possibly even parents or future kids. <3
Np... and what do you mean by "representation"? Lost me there, sorry...
This MyTake is possibly speaking on behalf of someone who may probably be in your life at some point.
Ah ok gotcha. I would also like to say you have a surprising amount of sexual maturity for your age... I'm impressed. I just saw you are only 23 and almost shit my pants.
Yeah, i'm hoping that my shitty past can help prevent someone elses from happening. Some young boy or girl somewhere. Just at least one <3 Also, thanks for being really sweet and understanding. It's nice just having a chill conversation where no one is judging you <3<3
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I don't know if I should be scared of you or want to have sex with you. Maybe both? 😉😂
Sir, you don't have to worry about that. lol I'm just here to let guys know that some of us girls get it.
I'm divorced and single so I'm definitely NOT getting it. LOL
Well, that's not necessarily bad news. It sounds like mighty new adventure! :^) c
I'm a full-time single parent (my son is with me 24 7, which is awesome), so the only adventure that I have time for is parenthood.
Hey, my dad took on my family too because my mom cheated and bailed. I feel for dads and men.
I don't feel for dads lol
@TomasLyy lol
Attemp to stop penis questions, N° 10000000000000000000 (...)
MISSION FAILED.
but also, accidental success
I am sure in some cases.
Well, this makes me feel better about certain insecurities, at least.
I mean, the focus for this was "penis" lol. I will be creating a male worship mytake to show that us women do have some silent appreciation. :^)
Not sure how much of it would work on a guy like me, but I appreciate you doing it all the same.
I always wondered : Can big balls make up for a little dick?
You know what. Now I wonder that too. lmfao
Lol. And now i wonder why i got 2 dislikes? Are big balls offensive? Is it the manspreading thing?
I'm guessing they are saying no to big balls making up for a little dick? lol
Oh well, that sucks😂
can't take this seriously from someone who doesn't have a dick
Everyone has their preferences. You do you
I think it's important to acknowledge that pleasuring your partner should get a you equally aroused, oral see makes my cock extend to its, zenith state, more blood pumped into it, the bigger if will be more aroused you will get. And if the girls see it they can feel it too. It's important to date people of a similar height, then size won't matter for better or worse.
You should not just have sex, because your bored, or that is the only woman that wants it. Good things come to those that wait, and deserve it.
I’m a 8inch and sometimes it’s a curse but mostly a amazing, I love my dick honestly
I have lost my erection a few times before due to nerves and my partner wasn't as understanding about it. I have a good size but I would give up an inch if I had perfect control over my erections.
It didn't help that she starfished me either. Good MyTake though!
Yea, it took me a while to find out that it was pretty flippin common! I hope you really enjoy yourself!! Also thank you <3
Thanks and you too.
Nice mytake
Thank you!
This was so beautiful. I mean you almost covered everything a woman would look for in a man and how his dick has no relation to his personality. There were a lot of statements in there throwing light on men with ED and once between 1-3 inches !! Respect !!
I really do appreciate your support, wow! Thank you so much <3
The pleasure is mine, and also I love your support for the guys like us! :) Thank you :)
I hope to support as much as I can. I've been really looking at the comments good and bad and focusing on how I can really do better with my future MyTakes. Wish my luck! <3
proud to be black man and not need to worry about my penis.. I call my dick the weapon of ass destrution
Like it 👍👍👍
Thank you! <3
I think people need to turn towards their own bodies rather than staring bodies on screen and try to be better at it learn skills
It definitely helps!
@lizzysmith
mine s is all in working order it needs a good seeing to?
Well, I guess I wouldn't advise an eye doctor.
l love you for that no l need a nice hot girl what you think about that then? l like you you are fantastic edwin x
Well, Hitler was a nice guy, until he wasn't... So I''d advice to look for more personality than a vague "nice" hahah ya know what I mean? Also, beauty is in the eye of the beholder so I could think a flower was hot and just hand you that but I don't think you'd be content with a measly flower.
you are great but if that one flower was from you l would be more than content? l do know what you mean? well you are the one hot girl or should that be you are that one flower that l wish that l could have? l am a very content guy and l do love to please l can't get over how very nice you are and you are very smart with what you have to say and l do love you for that edwin x
Yea, guys should get flowers too. Why would i think that you wouldn't be content with a flower? I apologize, my dear friend. I don't know if the world would still be turning if everyone suddenly turned nice, but I hope that I might be treated with more consideration if I honor someone with the same treatment ~~
l will always respect you yes l do love flowers and l am a straight guy l have never had flowers from a girl l wish l could now where do l send the flowers to for you? l think that we are been shy of each other what do you have to say about that then? edwin x
Wow! I really appreciate your sweet consideration, but that isn't necessary. I couldn't do the same, but the thought is very much appreciated!!
l know what you are saying with out you saying it l read between the lines and then l can understand where you are coming from l retract nothing as to what l have said about you as you are a real nice girl with a fantastic brain and a great outlook on life thats very true as of what l am saying about you would you say that l am right about that? edwin x
Let’s talk about your vagina
I should make a MyTake for girls too. Unfortunately, a lot of Americans receive terrible sex education.
I have no idea about that But yeah you know
#vaginasize #vaginadepth
lol. whooooopss
yah mabye me or you should make a question bout that lol
Vagina depth and width sounds about right.
Feel free to invite me to the poll if you make one lolol
I used up my questions for the day, you seem very intelligent and smart so I think you should take the lead okakie dokie
Aha! Trying to be slick and insert a compliment to really convince me? I post pretty whacky stuff already, I might as well just continue downhill. lol
im slick rick, and wahcky isn't bad, i agree con
Funny how women won't shutup about our size, and trying to use that gambit to control us. WE ALL KNOW that men's equipment is all outside the body, easy to clean, scrub, and get to a sparkling shine, whereas women's equipment in internal, almost impossible to clean, and is not scrubbed sparkly. Pussies, in general, are gross, stanky, droopy-lipped, gaping holes of nasty gunky slop, festering, cavernous, scary, roastbeefy, who the f**k knows what died in there. If men weren't genetically/biologically made to love you (and it), then you'd have been roasted on the spit way back in caveman days. When the artificial womb is perfected...
@jakeforfun Alright buddy. This is straight up misogyny and you're not being funny about it so it's clearly not a joke for you. I chose to report your behavior so I hope I can help other women be saved from your potential harassment. Good luck.