Lets Talk About Anal... #FemalePerspective #Anal

This was requested by a friend, I thought this would be a great opportunity to make an ass out of myself for the online community to benefit others, as well as, to make it quicker to reference to my own advise as this answers multiple questions. I promote safe sex!

** Disclaimer: I do not speak for all men and women. and uh- speak with your doctor for personalized medical advisement?**

Lets Talk About Anal... #FemalePerspective #Anal

1) Why do most women hate/fear anal?

a) Not all men know how to correctly give anal and hurt the woman, which ultimately ruins it for her.

b) It has a "porn star" stigma.

c) STD's and pink sock strikes fear into many.

d) Fears of poo poo accidents.

Lets Talk About Anal... #FemalePerspective #Anal

2) How could you correctly give anal?

a) If you are starting off going straight in for anal:

First, ask for permission. It requires patience, a lot of lube, slow/wet probing and a butt plug helps to relax and widen beyond the size of fingers.

b) If you want to have anal during sex:

First, ask for permission for anal (specifically). Now this version requires less patience depending on how pre-relaxed and aroused your partner is. Slab a lot of lube, spit, natural juices all over and really pay attention to the asshole and cheeks WHILE fucking the cunt, sucking a tit and flicking a clit with your other hand. All this stimulation are basic "warm-ups" and don't make the asshole the main focus, your girl will be warmed up and full of sensations that will relax her body enough to open up. You will feel it in her vagina as it loosens with arousal and in her ass as you keep your finger rubbing AT the entrance of her asshole and not probing inside (unless asked ofc). I'd advise to avoid: talking about switching to anal, as well as, slow dick insertion, because the fear or insecurity/attention can cause a person to tighten up and lose all your hard work. Dirty talking about all the things you feel and want to do to her will definitely help (unless you don't know how, but then if you didn't know how... I don't think you have enough experience to correctly give anal. )

When ya girl is really aroused, flip her around to doggy and continue giving her cunt the attention it needs. But now you fully expose her asshole to you and this allows you a good viewpoint. You will be able to see when her asshole is relaxed and be able to help keep it lubed and possibly lap it up. When she feels and sounds ready, you just shove your dick right in and just go for it till you are fucking her off the side of the bed. Now if she a noob to anal (and on birth control), take your free cum ticket and cum in her ass before she knows how shitty it is. It will be the best experience for both in the moment. The cum filling the asshole in that moment is a very sensitive moment for both. Enjoy!

- do not switch from anal into vaginal-

Lets Talk About Anal... #FemalePerspective #Anal

3) What is the difference between a vaginal and anal orgasm?

Vaginal orgasm:

A vaginal orgasm is a long and slow build of pressure and sensation. The vagina clenches and pulses. The release is quick, relieving and relaxing.

Anal orgasm:

An anal orgasm is a quick and instantaneous explosion of raw pulsing and intense waves of just orgasm after orgasm- basically a longer lasting huge orgasm that just blows your mind and then a wild and very noticeable sense of release.

Lets Talk About Anal... #FemalePerspective #Anal

4) The honest truth about why cum in the asshole sucks:

a) It feels like you have the wet shits afterwards.

b) Who knows if you got it all out the first time... The shits feeling can last a little longer than expected. All that comes out is little spurts of cum. grats.

Lets Talk About Anal... #FemalePerspective #Anal

5) How to better prepare for anal:

a) Butt plugs in multiple sizes. (sharpie, toothbrush and hairbrush handle work for beginners)

b) Colon cleaning methods: (not recommended regularly due to health effects)

- bowel-clearing laxatives, powders or supplements

- colonic irrigation or colon hydrotherapy

c) Shower before and after.

d) Practice eating out ass.

e) Enjoy watching some anal porn.

f) Find a new texture you enjoy.

g) practice having sex with a larger size butt plug inserted each time.

h) If guys really want to understand the sensitivity of anal, they should masturbate while doing it to themselves in order to really understand the joys and the pains of anal.

<3 I hope this helped open up some minds to it, it truly is enjoyable. I'd advise not to do it too much, but it definitely is an experience worth trying at least once! (if done right and properly prepared). <3

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  • I love anal orgasm <3
    It is much much better then vaginal

    • @simplegirl94 do u cum from anal

    • I would like to meet you

    • Ur one in a million 🌹

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  • Ha! Making an "ass" out of yourself while talking about anal. Well done...

    • Thanks! I tried to make it painless

    • Okay okay... quit while you're ahead. lol

    • LMFAO

  • Lol, i never tought i'd hear a girl say when she is ready, just put it in and fuck away till you cum.

    That sounds very alluring but also kinda like jumping the gun after all that prepping.

    Nice take.

    I wouldn't ask my woman for anal if she didn't like it.
    But i would like to know how it feels to cum in the ass before i die

    • I believe that consent and preparation is vital. After those two marks are checked off, I believe it's more fun to take the spontaneous route of the path; adding some extra personal flavor and passion to the mix. To heat it up a bit, ya know? Definitely don't go down in your grave until you've tried it. lol it's to die for

    • Yeah that sounds nice 😀

    • It is tighter and orgasms for both (if done correctly) can be very intense.

  • not into anal anyway. i'd rather just eat the booty

    • I guess you could say that you have an acquired taste.

    • Booty means here poo, yuck! Or do you mean Cunnilingus and her liquids?


  • Does unprotected Anal sex in Mutual Monogamous relationship (Commitment like in marriage), can cause urethritis of (non-STD & non-gonococcal)?
    Does unprotected Anal sex in Mutual Monogamous relationship (Commitment like in marriage), can cause urethritis of (non-STD & non-gonococcal)? ↗

  • Well said! Slowly and dont rush.. Butt plugs are you friend. and If you want to do your girl in the ass, you might consider letting her play with yours ass well.. Whats good for the goose... is good for the gander... LOL

    • Hahaha same applies when guys expect their girl to swallow... the guy should be okay with tasting his own first.

    • And he should be ok with eating you out @sugarchateau

    • been and done!

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  • Haha I'm too old for these kind of shenanigans. Pink sock, something or other. I enjoyed reading!

    • Pink sock does sound cute until you connect it to bodily functions. Bleh! Thanks for reading!! <3

  • No I don't wanna talk bout anal

    • Aha! You just did. good job lol

    • ah you tricked me

    • Tricks are for kids lol

  • They don't call me BP Oil Drill for nothing

    • lmfao. slick

    • Mostly from the lube

    • Aye! That's a good one.

  • Pretty good article.
    If done right it can be enjoyable for each person.

    • Truth.

    • Thank you! <3

    • You're welcome

  • love anal sex.. white girls anal hole is the natural habitat of black penis

    • hahaha noted

    • you liked anal with a black man before?

    • This comment... Is hilarious!.

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  • damn, girl

    • No shame in truth. I hope I saved someones experience.

  • Great post. Very well written!

    • Thank you so much!!

  • I love receiving anal

    • You'll have to get together with @herelby. He threatened to sodomize me for disagreeing with him

    • I'm glad you enjoy it! Not many guys do!

    • The question is, from who? A gay or a woman with a dildo strapped-on?

  • I don't want to talk about anal, it's gross

    • You just did, good job. Also, welcome to the page about anal... lol

    • Thank you

  • l would do anal with you you will have to clean your arse out first l have not done anal before but l do wish to please you?

    • It is not the question to do it with her.

  • i dont eat ass, i just do the abc's on dat pussy

    • Everyone has their preference <3

    • i dont like do the abc's literally, its just a trick i spell it out with the motion of my tongue

    • hahaha I wasn't concerned about your sex tactics.

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  • Glad to see this-maybe this can undo the damage morons have caused

    • I know, it truly is enjoyable when done right. I hate to see so many getting scarred for life because idiots are too eager and don't know all the steps to consider for both parties. Even women are morons for not educating themselves when and if they had the opportunity beforehand.

    • Agreed. I'd only focus on getting the head in-occupy myself with her tits while she does the rest until SHE says that SHE is ready-no matter the level of intimacy-only she'll know if she's ready for me to move... though-I wouldn't say watching anal porn necessary. As far as men wanting it so bad-it's really you girl's fault, anyway.

    • Is that you in the picture?

  • Interesting, I don't do anal...

    • Interesting! lol

  • hmm I see.. very informative!
    SO a few questions
    1. the ANAL orgasm.. is this simply by anal penetration alone. OR does it require other stimulation?
    2. What is the influence of cock size on anal sex? is it possible to have one that isn't fit for anal?
    3. You stated if its the first time, to cum in her ass? you state that is a very sensitive moment (I assume good?).. but also kinda imply its not the greatest thing for the girl?

    • 1. Sometimes I feel like it's both, as well as, one or the other. 2. Thinner and smaller dick is easier to take in the ass. Some people are size queens and enjoy large dick, but i'd say that i'd avoid large dick for anal. 3. Yes, a very good and raw moment of pure bliss due to how sensitive it becomes after a first time. The cum will fill her up and really push her even more over the edge. Its a momnet to not be ruined... UNTIL the inevitable.. of realizing that it feels like you have the squirts afetrwards. Sometimes that kills the vibe for women.

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