Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
This was requested by a friend, I thought this would be a great opportunity to make an ass out of myself for the online community to benefit others, as well as, to make it quicker to reference to my own advise as this answers multiple questions. I promote safe sex!
** Disclaimer: I do not speak for all men and women. and uh- speak with your doctor for personalized medical advisement?**
1) Why do most women hate/fear anal?
a) Not all men know how to correctly give anal and hurt the woman, which ultimately ruins it for her.
b) It has a "porn star" stigma.
c) STD's and pink sock strikes fear into many.
d) Fears of poo poo accidents.
2) How could you correctly give anal?
a) If you are starting off going straight in for anal:
First, ask for permission. It requires patience, a lot of lube, slow/wet probing and a butt plug helps to relax and widen beyond the size of fingers.
b) If you want to have anal during sex:
First, ask for permission for anal (specifically). Now this version requires less patience depending on how pre-relaxed and aroused your partner is. Slab a lot of lube, spit, natural juices all over and really pay attention to the asshole and cheeks WHILE fucking the cunt, sucking a tit and flicking a clit with your other hand. All this stimulation are basic "warm-ups" and don't make the asshole the main focus, your girl will be warmed up and full of sensations that will relax her body enough to open up. You will feel it in her vagina as it loosens with arousal and in her ass as you keep your finger rubbing AT the entrance of her asshole and not probing inside (unless asked ofc). I'd advise to avoid: talking about switching to anal, as well as, slow dick insertion, because the fear or insecurity/attention can cause a person to tighten up and lose all your hard work. Dirty talking about all the things you feel and want to do to her will definitely help (unless you don't know how, but then if you didn't know how... I don't think you have enough experience to correctly give anal. )
When ya girl is really aroused, flip her around to doggy and continue giving her cunt the attention it needs. But now you fully expose her asshole to you and this allows you a good viewpoint. You will be able to see when her asshole is relaxed and be able to help keep it lubed and possibly lap it up. When she feels and sounds ready, you just shove your dick right in and just go for it till you are fucking her off the side of the bed. Now if she a noob to anal (and on birth control), take your free cum ticket and cum in her ass before she knows how shitty it is. It will be the best experience for both in the moment. The cum filling the asshole in that moment is a very sensitive moment for both. Enjoy!
- do not switch from anal into vaginal-
3) What is the difference between a vaginal and anal orgasm?
Vaginal orgasm:
A vaginal orgasm is a long and slow build of pressure and sensation. The vagina clenches and pulses. The release is quick, relieving and relaxing.
Anal orgasm:
An anal orgasm is a quick and instantaneous explosion of raw pulsing and intense waves of just orgasm after orgasm- basically a longer lasting huge orgasm that just blows your mind and then a wild and very noticeable sense of release.
4) The honest truth about why cum in the asshole sucks:
a) It feels like you have the wet shits afterwards.
b) Who knows if you got it all out the first time... The shits feeling can last a little longer than expected. All that comes out is little spurts of cum. grats.
5) How to better prepare for anal:
a) Butt plugs in multiple sizes. (sharpie, toothbrush and hairbrush handle work for beginners)
b) Colon cleaning methods: (not recommended regularly due to health effects)
- bowel-clearing laxatives, powders or supplements
- colonic irrigation or colon hydrotherapy
c) Shower before and after.
d) Practice eating out ass.
e) Enjoy watching some anal porn.
f) Find a new texture you enjoy.
g) practice having sex with a larger size butt plug inserted each time.
h) If guys really want to understand the sensitivity of anal, they should masturbate while doing it to themselves in order to really understand the joys and the pains of anal.
<3 I hope this helped open up some minds to it, it truly is enjoyable. I'd advise not to do it too much, but it definitely is an experience worth trying at least once! (if done right and properly prepared). <3
What Girls & Guys Said
17 39I like it sometimes. But most of the timesxit hurts. I am a petite. I think if the guys would not be so pressing and more patient it could open up and then it’s cool. But not waiting enough can then be very painful. I think it’s so arousing for guys once they are in a little that they must... well... push and dril...
I'd just get the head in and let you do the rest... just keep my mind off it by playing with your tits
He should slow down and be patient.
You are almost there for awesome anal orgasms. You need a decent, patient, loving guy. Sometimes, once the head is in, it is worth it stop. Breathe. Breathe together. At some point, the clenching stop. The anus goes from this * to this (o). He still can't start hammering away. But if half the dik slips in without really pushing too much? You are well on your way. Don't let your petite size concern you. Some very small ladies take some very large diks smoothly into their butt holes. You have a much better chance of reaching that mythical a-spot -- and squirting when you orgasm.
If you want to do anal just stick it in a whores ass, pay them 50 extra
Asking beforehand is just the considerate and humane thing to do. Money doesn't mean you should let entitlement get to your head, it builds bad character. You might be stuck having to continuously pay your sex partners to get laid. Who knows! I'd advise to just play it safe for both her and yourself.
Not all prostitutes are into anal sex.
Good information
I'm glad you found it useful <3
1. A
2. B
3. My anal orgasms are way more powerful than vaginally orgasms
4. B
5. A
Girls need to be fucked in their assholes and mouths in addition to their pussies.
I would tell you you need to be fucked in the brain but looks like you already are ❤
Why? Women like being treated like a pornstar.
The ones you're around maybe
No, if she doesn't want it you just make it worse.
I guess I'll skip breakfast this morning.
Ha ha. I had a similar reaction. I'm not closed on the subject but. . .
It doesn't hurt to skip a meal <3
When the discussion turns disgusting, I become nauseous.
Some people can handle and some people can't. I'm sorry I ruined your breakfast though
No Prob.
Put on a strong condom and your penis is protected from poo.
Whats pink socks? And i guess C/D is why i fear anal. Its nasty, super unsanitary, and dooky-ish. Im a littled scarred because he tried doing that to me without permission. We were supposed to be trying vaginal doggystyle and he tried to force it into my ass. Even witth permission i’d still be against it. I’d never be into anal. Butt plugs? Yuck? How long will it take these peoples ass to close back up. Their shit will fall out wihtout them even havingg to push it out. Ass eating is even more disgusting than anal sex. Im against all anal play and dont come blowing up my opinion post people. I've stated what/why im against it. Also, anal is a gay mans activity. Im not partaking in that. The end
Yeah, obviously it's not for everyone. This is here for those who want to know more about it. So welcome to reading more about it even though you dont want to know about it? lol
I do like that you told people how to be safer with it though. What is pink socks?
hahah uh pink sock is painful to talk about and to look at. It's when your anus turns inside out, pretty much.
Ewwwww
YEA! lol I'm sorry I scarred you, but it's better to be educated about this dangerous stuff lolol
Not scared. I said “scarred”. My ex scarred me for life. I never wanted to try any sex from behind (not vaginally nor anally) and when i tried to be nice and try vaginal doggy, he tricked me and tried to push it into my ass. It felt like rape in a way but i won't call it that. He thrusted maybe 2 good times trying to get it in before i made him stop. I wanted to cry but held it in. It was so painful and my hemerrhoids were down the following day. My mom had to stick an enema up me to push them back up. It was so embarassing. And ik he and i were not safe because we didn't use a condom when he did that and after wiping himself with a papertowel, he shoved it into my pussy. I feel so stupid now knowing i let him doubledip
I must admit, i'm slightly confused by what you said here: "Not scared. I said “scarred”. " Also, accidents happen. I mean, sometimes thats just how people have to learn. Now you can help educate others too! You can be a hero to some little girl or boy somewhere <3
Scared means frightened. Scar aka scarred means traumatized.
No I know, but I didn't say scared. I said scarred. lolol that's why im confused
i hate it.
we, regular people don't have enough info to do anal like pornstars does it.
its painfull as hell for the girls and when i tried it, i bleed because my anus wall got torned or whatever, it wasn't serious but not worth the pain anyway. plus it could get seriously embarrassing.
Some people always will even if they did like it. I'm hoping to help inform so that they can do it safer as well as prevent guys from hurting girls.
i didt it just to satisfy my boyfriend.
Sorry that happened to you. Did he start with a tongue? That can change everything...
Personally, I would never have anal, it's disgusting, and disrespectful for women... besides, biologically speaking, anus is not a sex organ, the only purpose of anus is defecation, that's what makes it so repulsive for most people.
@Anon-ymous1 Hand is not used in sex, it's used in masturbation. Therefore, anal is wrong, because that organ is naturally used for defecation.
@Anon-ymous1 Nope, I would never ask that.
@Anon-ymous1 Thanks.
@roland77 Nobody asked you, stop spamming on other people's opinions.
I don't mind anal but it hurts a bit and the guy gets more out of it than I do. If a guy I'm seeing wants to do anal I normally say I'll agree as long I can show them what it feels like first. Most give up there, but sometimes I get to break out the restraints and strap on and then we both have a lot of fun.
Ya show em how its done hahaha
I've had good experiences giving anal but others not so good. A girl once shit the bed during and then threw me out of her house.
WOW! She wasn't ready lolol awe!! I'm so sorry that it happened.. That must've been embarrassing for both. It happens, I guess. I'm sure that is the worst experience you've had though, right? Not more? lol
Yeah definitely the worst experience i've had. actually put me off sex for a while lol
I'd feel the exact same way!
Your feelings towards it are understandable. I hope you enjoy it *pre-cleaned* now again? There are anal showers for a reason other than medical.
But not to often, maybe twice per week is okay? I dunno, the flora of the rectum changes by being flushed out.
I aspire to be as happy as you.
Maybe pain is happiness lol
nice take, thank you. my girlfriend and i do anal once of twice a week, usually at her request. she has really intense orgasms with anal so she always likes me or a finger or toy in there when she orgasms. i had no idea before i met her that some women love anal that much.
Yeah! It surprises everyone lol
Yuck. You're disgusting. Anyone who does anal is.
It happens! Maybe your parents did too. I wouldn't judge. I would rather promote safe sex.
save a young girls life.
I appreciate you taking on a mission to promote safe sex, but the act is just disgusting. I apologize if I came across as antagonistic. Didn't mean to insult you. I just have an aversion to it. I know my parents never did as it is a sin in our religion.
I grew up religious (I don't want to mention the religion bc I dont want to accidentally offend it) and I had a crappy life due to many things that happened out of my control. Things happen and I just hope to inform others to at least be more aware and I might save someone. I did anal twice in my life, one was not by choice. I haven't done it in years, but I thought this would be important to share and I could save a girl or guy from getting pink sock or anything. Do you believe in chain reaction? Also, thank you for responding so politely <3
All sex is disgusting if you really think about it
@Sabretooth Not really. Anal sex is repulsive.
Why?
@Sabretooth If you're into it, I don't have anything against you. I just think the act is gross. I can't explain why. That's like asking why do some people like vanilla ice cream and not chocolate.
Do you think you'd reconsider if you found someone who wanted it? Just curious
@Sabretooth Some to religious about it. Anal is special, not like vaginal penetration. It is not disgusting because you can always put on a condom. It can help strengthen the bond between a committed couple because of the intensity and emotional feelings during it. Also it is very intimate.